“Now Israel (Jacob) loved Joseph more than all his children, because he was the son of his old age; and he made him a coat of many colors. And when his brethren saw that their father loved him more than all his brethren, they hated him, and could not speak peaceably unto him.” Genesis 37:3-4 (KJV, clarification added)

We see that Jacob practiced favoritism. This show of affection for one boy from a large family did not help the brothers in their attitude toward the favored one.

There is no excuse for sin at any time, but there are also actions that can be offensive, and could hinder a person from coming to the Lord. Joseph’s testimony was not received by most of his brothers, who treated him rudely and sold him into slavery.

This problem of favoritism showed up again when the brothers came with the coat of many colors, which had been dipped in blood. Note Genesis 37:32: “Your son’s coat”—not our brother’s coat—as it might have been said.

Ask God to give you love for all the children in your house, and be sure you teach them God’s way, even if it is not the practice in your community. Being fair to all members of the family is God’s way, and you will see that God’s way is always best.

“Then Peter opened his mouth and said: ‘in truth I perceive that God shows no partiality’” Acts 10:34 (NKJV).

– Bill Jackson