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136. The permission to pause. Time away was needed.

136. The permission to pause. Time away was needed.

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Have you ever longed for a pause button—a moment where no one needs you, nothing is urgent, and you can simply breathe? In this episode, I’m sharing my deeply personal experience from a recent retreat in Costa Rica—where for the first time in a long time, I stepped out of all the roles I usually play and rediscovered what it feels like to simply be me. No titles, no to-do lists, no emotional labor. Just space.

If you’re a midlife woman feeling buried under invisible responsibilities, this episode offers you permission: to slow down, to feel, and to let go of what no longer fits. I’ll also introduce a powerful concept from yoga philosophy that I’m bringing home with me—and that might just change how you approach clarity and self-care in your own life.

In this episode:

· Why stepping away from your roles can be deeply healing in midlife

· The overlooked emotional labor women carry—and how it quietly adds up

· A heartfelt letter from a retreat participant that perfectly captures the power of solitude

· The yoga principle of Saucha—and how it can support mental and physical clarity

· Why clarity often comes not from doing more, but from removing the noise

· Simple ways to create emotional and physical space at home—even if you can’t retreat

· A gentle reminder that you are allowed to rest without guilt


Resources Mentioned:

  • Retreat leader: Heather Solomon Yoga Teacher (@yoga.ethos) • Instagram profile
  • Retreat Center: Bodhi Tree Yoga Resort (@bodhitreeyogaresort) • Instagram profile
  • Casa Om Retreat in West Virginia this April with yours truly :) April 2026 Retreat Breathwork and Wellness in West Virginia - Rising Woman Project

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

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