In this Owner’s Room episode, Dr. Tara Vossenkemper is talking about a weird (and honestly relieving) leadership shift: when the noise inside you gets quiet. Not because you’ve checked out — but because you’ve finally settled. The decision is already made internally, so you stop doing the whole “pre-explaining/pre-justifying/pre-narrating” thing to your team like you’re presenting a legal defense.

Tara walks through what self-trust actually feels like in the body (not just in your head), why some leaders feel compelled to explain themselves to death, and what it costs to keep translating yourself so other people stay comfortable. She also digs into the discomfort of letting people have their own interpretations — and what changes when you stop managing reactions in advance while still staying values-led and transparent.

If you’ve been feeling that quiet steadiness in yourself and also wondering, “cool, but do I owe everyone a 12-slide explanation?” …this one’s for you.

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction to Quiet Leadership
01:04 Exploring the Owner's Room
01:42 Trusting Yourself: Brain and Gut Alignment
06:00 Explaining Yourself to Others
17:11 The Cost of Translating Yourself
22:25 Handling Others' Interpretations
24:29 Understanding Misinterpretations
25:56 Dealing with Discomfort
28:20 Leadership Without Managing Reactions
35:17 Scenario: Leadership Shift
45:46 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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