Ever told yourself, "I'll do it when things settle down"… and then realised life literally never settles down?

Yeah. Same.

In this episode, Patti and Meghan call out one of the biggest lies women have been sold, that confidence, boldness, and clarity come before action. Spoiler alert, they don't. They come after you move.

This is not a habits episode. It's not about waking up earlier, drinking more water, or finding the perfect planner. It's about why waiting to feel ready keeps so many women stuck, and why the people you think are confident were scared too. They just went first.

From parenting triggers and flu karma, to quitting things you've outgrown, to how "self-improvement" can quietly become the world's prettiest hiding place, this one gets uncomfortably real.

If you've been telling yourself you're "not there yet", this episode might be the nudge you didn't know you needed.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why "when things calm down" is the biggest trap

• How self-growth can turn into procrastination with better branding

• The difference between preparing and hiding

• Why confident people don't actually feel confident

• Discomfort as a green light, not a warning sign

• Parenting, leadership, and letting people struggle instead of rescuing them

• Why you move first, then you feel different

🎧 Listen in, then tell us, what's the thing you've been waiting to do?