In today's episode of The Family Dialogues Podcast, we explore what it really means to be a "good mother" in a culture that glorifies perfection and the idea of the supermom. Host Dr. Burke sits down with Kate Kripke, LCSW, perinatal mental health therapist and author of Reinventing Supermom, to unpack why high-achieving women are especially vulnerable to anxiety, overwhelm, and burnout in motherhood.

This powerful conversation explores the emotional transition from maiden to motherhood, the hidden costs of achievement-driven parenting, and how a parent's nervous system shapes a child's sense of safety and attachment. Kate explains why children "borrow" our nervous systems, how secure attachment is built, and why placing our emotional well-being on our child's behavior can be harmful—though often unintentional.

You'll learn practical, neuroscience-backed tools for emotional regulation, including Kate's 3 Cs framework (Curiosity, Compassion, Choice), which helps parents stay grounded during tantrums, emotional outbursts, and moments of overwhelm from toddlerhood through the teenage years. This episode also addresses cultural and generational beliefs about emotions, why feelings are not the problem, and how repairing ruptures in the parent-child relationship actually strengthens connection.

Whether you're a new mom, a high-achieving parent, or navigating emotional challenges with older children, this episode offers compassionate insight, actionable strategies, and reassurance that you don't have to lose yourself to be a loving, secure parent.

• Why high-achieving women struggle more with postpartum anxiety
• The emotional cost of the "supermom" identity
• Secure attachment and the concept of a safe emotional container
• How parental anxiety impacts infant and child nervous systems
• Why children's emotions are not misbehavior
• The 3 Cs for regulating yourself during tantrums and conflict
• Supporting emotional regulation from toddlerhood through adolescence
• Letting go of perfection while strengthening connection

• Kate Kripke, LCSW – Perinatal Mental Health Therapist
• Book: Reinventing Supermom: Support, Encouragement, and Strategies for Mothers Who Feel Lost – Kate Kripke
• Kate's Instagram: @katekripke
• Postpartum Support International (PSI)