In this episode, Carla Romo explores modern dating and relationship dynamics, including how men and women often experience sex differently, the role of social media in attraction, and why relationships lose their spark over time. Carla breaks down the importance of boundaries, individuality, and emotional connection, while emphasizing honest communication about intimacy — including conversations around sex toys. This episode offers insight into maintaining curiosity, planning intentional experiences, and reigniting connection in long‑term relationships.

What You'll Learn

• Men and women often experience sex differently

• Social pressure affects intimacy and attraction

• Healthy relationships need boundaries and individuality

• Codependency can kill the spark

• Communication and curiosity strengthen connection

• Intentional experiences (dates, play, novelty) reignite intimacy

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Swipe Match Spark: The Ultimate Dating App Guide

No Filter: The Sex Guide Every Dater Needs

Book:

Contagious Love: Break Free From Codependency for Damn Good

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Sound Bites

• "Men care more about sex than women."

• "It's not about who cares more."

• "No woman is gonna be into certain things."

Chapters

00:00 — Do Women Care More About Sex Than Men?

03:00 — They Don't Have ANY Social Media

11:34 —The #1 Reason Relationships Lose Their Spark

29:26 — Do Sex Toys Belong in Bed?

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