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You're Secretly Sabotaging Your Sex Life (And You Don't Even Know It)

You're Secretly Sabotaging Your Sex Life (And You Don't Even Know It)

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Welcome to Season 2! We're kicking things off with a hard truth: If sex feels awkward, disconnected, or just plain off, you might be sabotaging your own sex life without realizing it.

In this episode, I'm sharing three traps that quietly kill intimacy — even in the most loving relationships — and what you can do to turn things around.

We'll talk about:

  • Why "special occasion sex" backfires
  • The performance mindset that ruins the moment
  • The myth of instant arousal
  • Why mind reading is not a turn-on (spoiler: communication is)

Plus, I've got details for my LIVE Valentine's Day Workshop coming up on February 14. It's just $27, with two time slots to choose from. No pressure. No awkward moments. Just a playful, private way to reconnect — solo or with your partner.

Save your spot here: https://intimacyafterkids.com/colour-me-curious


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