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Why do men try less once they have you?

Why do men try less once they have you?

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Why do men put in so much effort at the beginning… and then slowly stop?

In this episode, we talk about the effort drop no one wants to admit exists. The good morning texts, the plans, the consistency — and how it all fades once they feel secure. We get into why women are made to feel dramatic for noticing, how we end up shrinking ourselves to keep the peace, and why asking for effort isn’t “too much.”

This is a raw conversation about access vs intention, standards vs excuses, and why the bare minimum should never feel like a big ask.

If you’ve ever thought, “You weren’t like this at the start,” this one’s for you.


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