Xaver Lehmann built two AI startups, sold one for $60M, and paid the price most founders don’t talk about until it’s too late.

Burnout. Identity loss. The quiet crash after the win.

In this conversation, we unpack the part of the founder journey that usually gets skipped in pitch decks and podcasts. What actually happens after the exit. Why success can feel emptier than expected. And how building at full speed without designing your life first eventually catches up with you.

Xaver shares what he learned the hard way, how burnout reshaped his definition of success, and why he now helps founders build companies without sacrificing their health, relationships, or sense of self. We talk about honest trade-offs, conviction-driven decisions, coaching versus content, and why “more” is rarely the answer founders think it is.

This is a conversation for founders chasing big outcomes, and quietly wondering what it’s all costing them.

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Chapters

• 00:00 The Journey to Exit: Reflections on Success
• 01:40 From Investment Banking to Entrepreneurship
• 06:26 Finding Product-Market Fit: The Evolution of a Startup
• 12:18 Legitimizing the Business: Milestones and Growth
• 17:06 Navigating the Acquisition Process: The Road to Exit
• 23:08 The Emotional Toll of Exiting: Personal Struggles
• 32:17 Rebuilding After the Exit: Finding New Purpose
• 39:38 The Honest Founder: Sharing Experiences and Lessons

Xaver Lehmann

Xaver Lehmann is a 2x AI founder, angel investor, and the founder of Honest Founder. After building and selling an AI company for $60M, he experienced founder burnout firsthand, reshaping how he thinks about success, growth, and leadership.

Today, Xaver helps founders build and scale sustainably through coaching, writing, and digital frameworks rooted in lived experience rather than theory. He also invests in early-stage startups and funds with fast, conviction-led decisions.

Beyond startups, Xaver supports wildlife conservation in South Africa and early childhood education initiatives in Cape Town. He has been recognised in Forbes 30 Under 30 Europe and DACH.

Who Should Listen

• Founders chasing scale and big outcomes
• Operators navigating burnout or quiet doubt
• Post-exit founders asking “what now?”
• Anyone building ambitious companies without wanting to burn themselves down

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“Neptuno” – Phondupe (Album: Onykia)

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