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A very special thank you to Lanier Theological Library in Houston Texas for allowing us to film on location!

Summary

This conversation explores the themes of wounded-ness in ministry, particularly from the perspective of a pastor's kid. The discussion delves into the impact of church hurt, the journey into ministry, and the importance of trust, identity, and healing. The speakers emphasize the need for forgiveness, understanding one's identity in Christ, and the significance of being human in ministry. They also provide encouragement for those who have experienced hurt and offer insights into navigating the complexities of ministry life.

Takeaways

• Wounded-ness in ministry can deeply affect one's identity.
• Growing up as a pastor's kid provides a unique perspective on church hurt.
• Trusting others in ministry requires vulnerability and healing.
• Forgiveness is a crucial step in the healing process.
• Understanding one's identity in Christ is essential for recovery.
• It's okay to be broken; humanity is part of ministry.
• Isolation can hinder healing; connection is vital.
• Gatekeeping in ministry helps prevent toxic patterns.
• Wounded pastors can find healing through community and support.
• Embracing one's story is key to finding strength and healing.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Wounded Leadership

01:30 The Impact of Woundedness in Ministry

02:20 Growing Up as a Pastor's Kid

02:58 Navigating Trust and Vulnerability in Ministry

03:49 The Journey into Ministry Despite Hurt

04:20 Understanding Grief and Forgiveness

05:42 The Importance of Identity in Healing

06:13 Overcoming Shame and Guilt

07:02 Gatekeeping in Ministry

08:22 Patterns of Healing for Wounded Pastors

09:09 The Role of Humanity in Ministry

09:59 Encouragement for the Wounded

11:19 Conclusion and Resources

Keywords

wounded leadership, ministry, healing, church hurt, pastor's kid, trust, identity, grief, forgiveness, counseling