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The Aftershow: Become Who You Want To Be (with Scott Barry Kaufman)

The Aftershow: Become Who You Want To Be (with Scott Barry Kaufman)

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In this aftershow episode of The Connection Effect, host Bill Groner discusses his recent podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman on self-actualization and transcendence. Bill is joined by Sahar Emambakhsh (Director of Operations & External Affairs at the Positive Connection Initiative) and Courtney Reimer (The Connection Effect Executive Producer; Founder & Principal Strategies at Sounds Great Podcast Strategy).

While this is heavy, life-shaping material, the crew discusses that self-actualization isn't an abstract ideal. It's about how we actually live—day to day, decision by decision, habit by habit—in a world that is busy, demanding, and often overwhelming.

Together, we explore the real obstacles:

  • The complexity of modern life
  • The tension between daily responsibilities and deeper direction
  • The quiet pressure to compare ourselves to others

And we ground those challenges in something practical and humane.

In this aftershow, we reflect on:

  • Why self-actualization is a process, not a finish line
  • How daily practices help us show up as our best selves today
  • Why comparison quietly undermines growth and meaning
  • The difference between living on purpose and searching for a single "purpose"
  • How intention begins with where—and how—we place our attention

This conversation isn't about fixing your life.
It's about guiding it—with care, intention, and compassion for yourself along the way.

Topics of discussion:

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introductions

00:42 Discussing Self-Actualization with Scott Barry Kaufman

01:12 The Sailboat Metaphor and Personal Reflections

07:48 Morning Routines and Personal Well-being

14:10 Exploring Purpose and Goals

22:14 Transcendence and Self-Actualization

32:39 Final Thoughts and Reflections

33:25 Conclusion and Farewell

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