In this episode, we’re talking about the complicated, emotional, identity-shifting question of whether or not to return to work after a cancer diagnosis.

This isn’t just about logistics or finances. It’s about purpose. It’s about identity. It’s about who you are outside of your roles — and who you’re allowed to become now.

If you love your job but aren’t sure your body can do it the way it used to… this conversation is for you.

We explore:

– Why this decision is about more than just “yes or no”

– The grief of losing (or changing) a professional identity

– Financial fear and how to shift into possibility instead of scarcity

– The difference between capacity issues and boundary issues

– Worst-case thinking vs. what’s actually medically true

– What “minimum viable work” could look like

– Why asking for what you want might surprise you

I also share personal decisions I’ve made about money, work, and presence — and how I think about trade-offs today.

This is a conversation I have with nearly every one of my 1:1 clients at some point — whether it’s about returning to work, stepping away, or redefining what work looks like entirely. You do not have to navigate this alone.

And I’ll leave you with the same question I ask in coaching:

If you knew nothing was wrong and you knew exactly what you would do… what is the answer?

Not the responsible answer. Not the impressive answer. The honest one.

If you’re sitting with this decision and want support walking through it thoughtfully — 1:1 coaching is where we untangle the fear from the facts and help you move forward with clarity.

You can learn more at heatherscoaching.com/discovery-call.com

Thanks for being here.

Music: “Inspiration” by Rocknstock, provided by TuneTank