Thank you so much for tuning in to the Playing Books podcast. Welcome to yet another episode to honor women in this International Women's Month. This episode explores the conversation we’ve all been avoiding until now.

We discuss Laura Bates' Men Who Hate Women: From Incels to Pickup Artists: The Truth about Extreme Misogyny and How it Affects Us All (Essential Book for Women's History Month), one of the most unflinching voices of our time rips the lid off the online rabbit holes where “nice guys” morph into incels, where pickup artists train men to treat women like targets, and where everyday misogyny quietly poisons dating apps, offices, bedrooms, and even friendships.

This isn’t theory. It’s real screenshots, real stories, and real data that will make your stomach drop, then make you nod because you’ve felt it. Whether you’re a woman exhausted by the “not all men” debate, a man who wants to do better but doesn’t know where to start, or anyone who just wants relationships to feel safe again, Laura Bates hands you the flashlight.

We’re talking about the book everyone’s quietly recommending to their group chats right now; the one that feels like essential Women’s History Month reading because it’s not about the past. It’s about right now.

Bates' book isn't about women as it seems on the surface; it is about freedom. Men consumed with sexual drive are in spiritual, social, biological, and psychological bondage; hating women only shows their in-depth frustration. On the other hand, women are seen to be people who can't have their say, even on issues about their bodies and when to have sex. Women exist, according to men who hate women, for sex and other errands. We recommend the book for you. Consider purchasing it on Amazon, at your favorite bookstore, or at your local library.

Have you read Bates' Men Who Women before? Are her expository ideas relatable? Please, comment with the one sentence that stayed with you. Please, share the episode with the friend who needs to hear it (you know exactly who), and among men's groups dedicated to hating women.

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