Social Emotional Learning (SEL) might be a trendy term in schools today, but it’s actually the heartbeat of everything I’ve ever done as a teacher and a mom. In this episode, I’m getting real about my early teaching days even including the time I was actually shamed for "wasting" instructional time by letting my students talk about their feelings. I’m sharing why I refused to stop, and how those moments of connection are the only reason the academic lessons ever actually "stuck".

We’re diving into the practical ways you can lead with connection instead of just instruction, whether you are in a classroom of 30 or at home with your own kiddos.

In this episode, we cover:

• The Foundation of Learning: Why an unregulated or emotionally overwhelmed child literally cannot process an academic lesson.
• The "Waste of Time" Myth: My personal story of being told to "stick to the PowerPoint".
• Discreet Connection Tools: How to use morning check-ins and Google forms to find out what your kids are actually carrying before you start the day.
• Morning Meetings & Closing Circles: Simple, silly, and low-pressure ways to build a sense of belonging through "Would You Rather" games and shared stories.

Featured Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

• The STEAM Made Preschool Curriculum: Built on the foundation of connection and emotional safety so real learning can happen.
• Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids eBook: My deep-dive guide into the regulation strategies that help you connect with your child on an emotional level.
• SEL Book Recommendations: I love using books to help kids see themselves and their big feelings in characters. Here’s a bunch of my favorites: https://www.amazon.com/shop/steammadesimple/list/13AB070HTU58I?ref_=aipsflist

Your "Think Like a Kid" Homework This Week:

Try leading with Connection before Instruction today. Choose just one of these four phrases to use with your child or student when you notice they are struggling:

1. "That looks really frustrating".
2. "I can tell something’s off today. Do you feel that too?".
3. "Do you want me to sit with you for a second before we start, or do you want to be alone?".

Recommended Episodes:

• Episode 1: Why I Didn't Like School (My "Why")
• Episode 2: The Watchdog Brain (Why "Calm Down" Doesn't Work)
• Episode 3: Anxiety, Perfectionism, and the “Smoke Detector Analogy”

If you loved this conversation, make sure to follow and subscribe to the show so you never miss an episode or a quick win. And hey, if you’re looking for a way to bring this 'think like a kid' energy into your daily learning, check out my The STEAM Made Preschool Curriculum. It’s the best way to give your child a head start with an educational advantage that actually feels like play.

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