The most important sex organ is...the brain!! Even so, Amy & Tommy can't help but start with the clitoris and the fact that it's been largely ignored until the 90s. The NINETEEN NINETIES. Soon enough they move on to Chapter 3 of Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are, the author-described "nerdy chapter," chock full of brain science. Don't worry, Amy & Tommy find several reasons turn up the spice level, including examining their own contexts for positive sexual experiences!

Mentioned in this Episode:

The Female Edge by Sara Szal, MD

"The Female Body Was Not Designed for the Sex Most Women Are Having After 35" by Sara Szal, MD

Inside Out

Inside Out 2

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

The Lord of the Rings, by J. R. R. Tolkein

Harry Potter Series by J. K. Rowling

Sexual Pleasure for Dummies by Myisha Battle

Adult Braces by Lindy West

More by Molly Roden Winter

Original Music:

Song: Non Romantic Dust

Artist: Muistardeaux Collective

Album: Mont Roc

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Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.