What if the secret to fewer power struggles, better behavior, and a stronger connection with your child isn't another parenting hack—but play?

In this episode of The Running Wine Mom, Samantha sits down with licensed therapist, registered play therapist, professor, podcast host, and author Dr. Kim Van Dusen to discuss her new book, Parenting Through Play. Together, they unpack why play is one of the most overlooked parenting tools, how it helps children communicate emotions, and practical ways parents can use playful strategies to navigate tantrums, sibling conflicts, picky eating, transitions, and everyday family stress.

Dr. Kim shares the science behind play therapy, the inspiration behind becoming The Parentologist, and why connection—not punishment—is often the missing piece when parents feel stuck. She also offers simple play-based techniques that can be implemented immediately, even by busy, exhausted parents.

Whether you're raising toddlers, navigating the tween years, or supporting a neurodivergent child, this conversation is packed with practical tools that can help bring more peace and connection into your home.

In This Episode:

• Why play is a child's primary language
• The difference between connection-based parenting and permissive parenting
• How playful parenting reduces power struggles and tantrums
• Strategies for picky eaters and difficult transitions
• The "Do-Over Method" for correcting behavior without shame
• How play supports children with ADHD, autism, and sensory differences
• Practical ways to strengthen parent-child connection in under five minutes
• Why discipline works better when it's built on trust and attachment
• Behind-the-scenes of writing Parenting Through Play
• Lessons from nearly 20 years as a child therapist and play therapist

Connect with Dr. Kim Van Dusen

Website: The Parentologist

Instagram: @theparentologist

Podcast: The Parentologist Podcast

Book: Parenting Through Play