Your body isn’t being “dramatic.” It might be overloaded. We’re kicking off season four of Spandex and Wine with a topic that’s quietly affecting a lot of women: nervous system regulation, especially through the lens of perimenopause and menopause, modern stress, and the nonstop stimulation of everyday life.

We talk through the real signs that your nervous system may be overtaxed, from fatigue, headaches, digestive issues, muscle tension, poor sleep, and injuries that feel like they appear out of nowhere, to emotional shifts like anxiety, irritability, overwhelm, and feeling disconnected from what you usually enjoy. We also get honest about the cognitive side: brain fog, forgetfulness, difficulty concentrating, and decision fatigue, including a story that perfectly captures how weird and frustrating this season can feel.

Then we dig into what can cause nervous system strain over time: chronic stress and constant responsibility, the way past trauma can shape your stress response, and lifestyle factors like poor sleep, excess alcohol, overtraining, undereating, and lack of recovery. Hormonal shifts and underlying health concerns can turn the volume up even more, which is why “try harder” rarely works and why nervous system support belongs in every wellness plan.

The best part: there’s hope. Your nervous system can learn new patterns, and we’re setting up a practical multi-part series designed to help you feel calmer, more resilient, and more like yourself again. If this resonates, subscribe so you don’t miss what’s coming next, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help more women find the show.

Danny Davis (neurology) Episode

Ginger Rothhaas (Compassion Fix) Episode

Alenda Jacobson (emotional reset) Episode

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