Alexander Bard is a philosopher, author, lecturer, and musician based in Stockholm, co-author of The Futurica Trilogy, Syntheism, and Digital Libido.

In this conversation:

Adultification — the process of becoming ready to commit, why women arrive before men, and the older version of yourself who already knows what you should do.

Marriage as a business enterprise — choosing a partner you could build a life and a family with, and the test of whether you'd still respect her as the mother of your kids.

Romantic love versus being in love — why the sensation never lasts, and what real, durable love toward someone's humanity actually looks like.

Monday morning coffee is peak marriage — the everyday life that a lasting marriage is really made of.

Seduction versus manipulation — taking responsibility for a stalled sex life and leading toward a destination she didn't know she wanted.

The shit test — Bard's provocative read on how men and women communicate, and why feelings and thoughts must stay separate for a man.

Ari in the Air:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ariintheair
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ariintheair
PGMG (men's group): https://theparaglidingacademy.com/tours/mensgroup/

Alexander Bard:
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Wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexander_Bard