They didn’t leave Jesus… they left the church.

A growing number of Christians still believe, still pray, and still love Jesus—but they’ve quietly walked away from church. They’re often called “the Dones.”

In this episode of Beyond the Numbers, I explore:

- why so many people never returned after the pandemic

- what Acts 2 reveals about the church God intended

- why community is something we desperately need even after being hurt.

If you’re a pastor, ministry leader, volunteer, or someone who has experienced church hurt, this conversation is for you.

Because maybe the question isn’t…

“How do we get people back?”

Maybe it’s…

“What are we inviting them back to?”

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Have you ever considered yourself one of the “Dones”?

What would healthy church look like to you?

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Chapters

00:00 The Rise of the “Dones”

01:56 What are the “Dones?”

03:10 Why people stopped coming back

05:05 Church isn’t Netflix

06:30 When leaving is healthy

08:00 What Acts 2 actually looked like

10:48 Why isolated faith eventually collapses

11:50 The community that carried me

14:42 The Lost Sheep

16:16 Would we notice they were gone?

17:26 What are we inviting people back to?

19:36 To those who left church

20:47 A challenge for every church leader

22:05 Final challenge

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