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We're Having Gay Sex

We're Having Gay Sex

Written by: Ashley Gavin & Studio71
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 After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20PolicyAshley Gavin & Studio71 Copyright 2020 All rights reserved. Social Sciences
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  • Franchesca Ramsey Has Achieved Pure Bisexuality | WHGS Ep. 317

    Franchesca Ramsey Has Achieved Pure Bisexuality | WHGS Ep. 317
    Mar 30 2026
    This episode is BI, listener! Franchesca Ramsey is an actor, comedian, writer, and producer known for her hyper-viral content and award-winning series “MTV Decoded”, but today she’s in the apartment to taste the sexual rainbow! We discuss bisexuality, polyamory, dating a man and a woman at the SAME time, coming out late in life, and encountering genital piercings so crazy that it stops sex. Ashley combats gay shame. Lizzy only dates long distance. FOLLOW FRANCHESCA RAMSEY: Listen to “Lemme Fix It!” NOW, on all platforms: https://www.youtube.com/@FixItpod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chescaleigh/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@franchesca_leigh Threads: https://www.threads.com/@chescaleigh FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/_Apr0VftjVw ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FEELD: Try Reflections by downloading the Feeld app or visiting https://feeld.co/reflections Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • Interviewing Eileen Myles — Legendary Lesbian Poet & “F-Boy” | WHGS Ep. 316

    Interviewing Eileen Myles — Legendary Lesbian Poet & “F-Boy” | WHGS Ep. 316
    Mar 23 2026
    This episode is POETIC, listener! Eileen Myles (they/them) is a celebrated poet, novelist, and journalist best known for “Chelsea Girls” and poems that queers everywhere tattoo onto their arms, but today they’re in the apartment to SEDUCE! We break format this episode to interview Eileen and learn about their career, history, and legendary love life. In-between, we discuss art, coming out, New York in the 70s, and how camp is the best place to have queer sex. Oh - and Ashley might even read one of her original poems… and BOY is it embarrassing. FOLLOW EILEEN MYLES Pre-order their upcoming book, “Bird Watching and Their First Three Books of Poetry”: https://fonografeditions.com/catalog/fono42-bird-watching-and-their-first-three-books-of-poetry-by-eileen-myles/ Read their other works: https://www.eileenmyles.com/books/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eileen.myles/ Twitter/X: https://x.com/EileenMyles FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/uaMwOiMNrto ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex HERS: Get personalized, affordable plans at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315

    Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315
    Mar 16 2026
    This episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment for some SEX tourism because things have been dry! We discuss not having sex in 10+ years despite liking it, why that can be affected by the intersections of trauma, gender, and body image, and how you can absolutely positively FUMBLE the one opportunity to break said dry spell. Ashley gets called ugly. Lizzy prefers gay men. FOLLOW SOFIE HAGEN: See them live on her WORLD TOUR now! Get tickets at https://www.sofiehagen.com/ Listen to “Sofieland” NOW on all platforms: https://www.sofiehagen.com/sofieland Check out her books: https://www.sofiehagen.com/books Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sofiehagendk/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sofie.hagen FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/WbjU37TrBOo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 9 mins
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