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The Gifts of Imperfection

Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are
Written by: Brené Brown
Narrated by: Lauren Fortgang
Length: 4 hrs and 42 mins
Categories: Self-Development, How-to
3.5 out of 5 stars (8 ratings)

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In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown, a leading expert on shame, authenticity, and belonging, shares 10 guideposts on the power of Wholehearted Living - a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness. Each day we face a barrage of images and messages from society and the media telling us who, what, and how we should be. We are led to believe that if we could only look perfect and lead perfect lives, we'd no longer feel inadequate. So most of us perform, please, and perfect, all the while thinking, "What if I can't keep all of these balls in the air? Why isn't everyone else working harder and living up to my expectations? What will people think if I fail or give up? When can I stop proving myself?"

In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown, Ph.D., a leading expert on shame, authenticity and belonging, shares what she's learned from a decade of research on the power of Wholehearted Living - a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness.

In her 10 guideposts, Brown engages our minds, hearts, and spirits as she explores how we can cultivate the courage, compassion, and connection to wake up in the morning and think, "No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough," and to go to bed at night thinking, "Yes, I am sometimes afraid, but I am also brave. And, yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable, but that doesn't change the truth that I am worthy of love and belonging."

©2010 Brene Brown (P)2010 Audible, Inc.

Critic Reviews

"Courage, compassion, and connection: Through Brené's research, observations, and guidance, these three little words can open the door to amazing change in your life." (Ali Edwards, author of Life Artist)
"Bren Brown courageously tackles the dark emotions that get in the way of leading a fuller life; read this book and let some of that courage rub off on you." (Daniel H. Pink, New York Times best-selling author of A Whole New Mind)
"This important book is about the lifelong journey from 'What will people think?' to 'I am enough.' Brown's unique ability to blend original research with honest storytelling makes reading The Gifts of Imperfection like having a long, uplifting conversation with a very wise friend who offers compassion, wisdom, and great advice.' (Harriet Lerner, New York Times best-selling author of The Dance of Anger and The Dance of Connection)

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loved it!

need to listen to it again😊 loved all the stories and simple explanation to so many things behaviours..love Brené Brown's work and the narration by Lauren Fortgang was great!!

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Beautiful deep and very impressive..

A book so beautiful read, with such immense depth and diverse research. I love the author's work and her style of connecting the various emotions. My favourite chapter in this book was the gudipost on powerless and fear of the dark. Must read for anyone who is interested in knowing the difference yet relationship between different human emotions...

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  • tracy
  • 17-08-14

Buy 'The Power of Vulnerability' Instead!

This book is amazing, except it is the exact same content as the power of vulnerability, which is narrated by Berne Brown herself. The work just seems much deeper and the stories a lot richer when you hear it from the author directly. When I say they're the same I really mean it. Same stories, same content, same organization.

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  • Wendy Reynolds
  • 18-02-18

Brown is spot on. Narration not.

I’m sad Dr Brown isn’t narrating -I can’t imagine how busy she is, but I can’t get into this reader’s inflections. It’s very distracting. I’ll read the book myself.

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  • Laura
  • 05-03-12

Really powerful

What was one of the most memorable moments of The Gifts of Imperfection?

I really enjoyed the authors humor throughout.

Which character – as performed by Lauren Fortgang – was your favorite?

I have heard the author's talk on TED (highly recommended) so I have heard her speak and really enjoy her speaking style. She has a snappy, dry wit that would have been most enjoyable to listen to. But the reader's voice is pleasant.

Any additional comments?

This book came along at a perfect time for me. I have been accompanied by shame my entire life, this book showed me how to process shame and negativity instead of carrying them around with me. It not only discussed the topic but showed me new ways to move forward. I can truly say I am and my relationships are better for having listened to this book and I will listen over and over.

P.S. To the reviewers point about the book dealing too heavily with children and family issues. I do not have children and found it perfectly enjoyable and was able to extrapolate the point the author was trying to make. It is not a book on or about family. It's about how we choose to live our lives. The author has children and that is the paradigm she speaks from. It by no means diminishes the meaning for those of us without.

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  • oaf
  • 11-03-13

good work--not a how to

One thing I must say is that I do NOT like this rating system...this work is not a novel, and what does performance mean? The work is based on Brown's research. It expands on the YouTube videos. I wish we could all have the courage to work though the issues that she puts to paper (so to speak). I have read this book much the same way as I do many of the books like this, which are in my library--helter skelter and then go back to the beginning and read it beginning to end.

I study this work from a slightly different angle. Our imperfections are our gifts--what we bring to the table to make this a better place to live. Reading with an open heart is essential otherwise the person walks away disappointed and put off. Brown's work is not a how to. Her work does give real to life examples that requires us to listen and then do the work--does it speak to you and if so then search for your solution and do your work. She makes visible the shift of consciousness. Well worth the time.

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  • Trina L Johnson
  • 11-05-13

Can this book be re-recorded by Brene Brown?

How did the narrator detract from the book?

I am going to have to read this book instead of listening to the Audible version. The artist utilized has such a high pitched voice, whistles her "s", and has a hard "g" at the end of words. I find it impossible to concentrate on the writing!

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

Yes. Set time aside on a Saturday.

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  • A. Yoshida
  • 07-12-13

Feel good therapy session

Reading this book is like a "feel good" session with a therapist. It encourages you to let go of your imperfections and live more whole heartedly. When listening to the stories in the book, you realize all those little negative thoughts that stop you from being authentic (for example, "he's being a jerk" instead of "he said something that was true and painful). The journey towards wholehearted living is a practice you would do everyday (or try as much as you can). I'm sure the key points that I take away from this book now are those things meaningful to me at this point in my life. I plan to read the book again and see if I find other things to work on.

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  • Beach Girl
  • 11-02-18

Not the same without Brene' narration

I very good friend had lent me her audio CD of Brene' Brown's Braving the Wilderness (which is awesome), so I wanted to listen to another of her works. I actually bought the hard cover so that I would be able to re-read and highlight passages, that's how much I loved it.

Unfortunately, the narration on this one is just so jarringly dissimilar that I'm not really liking the book or getting much out of it. It's like the narrator has no clue of content and is just inappropriately flying through the material. This is a major disappointment.

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  • Nobody's business
  • 08-11-13

Makes valuable points about dealing with shame

This was a valuable book that I may later re-read. The author, Brene Brown, relates various fears, such as the fear of failure and the fear of rejection, to the overriding emotion of shame. I found most of her ideas to be well presented and on point.

The author doesn't venture much into religion, but where she does, she doesn't commit to anything, she just has a very vague view of how that fits into her world view. I didn't agree with her vague views and found them distracting in relation to the rest of the book. She sounded like she was tryng too hard to not offend anyone to present a real perspective on the spiritual aspect of the human experience.

She did, however, provide a clear explanation of just how the fear of shame impacts and even creates a lot of the other emotions that account for many of our actions. I've actually never heard an author address this topic in this way, and I found it refreshing to hear such a frank discussion of such an important aspect of our existance that we would rather forget about. Ms. Brown reminds us that facing shame and our fear of it can free us to be brave and to forgive ourselves enough to experience joy.

The narrator has such a wonderful voice for this type of book. She is simultaneously encouraging and calming. Her voice is sweet with a natural cadence that keeps you engaged. I listened to the book at a speed of 1.5 and found Lauren Fortgang's performance to be perfect.

I would recommend this book to anyone who has a problem with the fear of failure and rejection or who feels that no matter what they do, they are somehow doing the wrong thing and missing out on life. It won't, of course, address every problem in life, but you might gain some perspectve that will help you to see some of your problems in the light of how you relate to shame, and that might help you to make better decisions. After all, isn't that the most one can expect out of a self-help book? Just don't take her vague religious ideas too seriously.

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  • ES
  • 20-08-12

A Must Read (or Listen)!

Brene Brown is one of my favorite researchers in the field of emotional study. The Gifts of Imperfection is a great illustration of what it means to life a full life along with operational goals and definitions of words like shame, authenticity, and vulerability. She uses anecdotes and research to make these points in a powerful way.

My only disappointment with the audio book is the narrator, who is not at all a bad narrator, just isn't at all like Brene Brown. Like many people, I became aware of Brene Brown's work after her TED talk went viral ("The Power of Vulnerability") in June 2010. Her voice and way of speaking is moving and powerful to say the least. I was disappointed not to hear her voice on the audiobook since she's inspiring, funny, and kind of comforting to me.

**Campaign for Brene Brown to read her audio books!!** Other than that, I loved it :)

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  • Susan
  • 23-05-12

Okay but not great

I bought this book after watching an amazing youtube video of her Ted Talk. Unfortunately, I didn’t feel like this book gave me that much more insight than her 15 minute talk did. The author kept referring to herself as a “researcher” but she didn’t include any of her research! She summed her findings up for us, but we didn’t get to hear any of the specifics. Instead, she talked about her own life (which is only semi-interesting). And she also spent a lot of time defining key terms, which also got old after a while. It was nice that she opened up and made the book personal, but it would have been more compelling to hear about other people’s stories and experiences (such as all those people she was supposedly researching) to help illustrate her points. Using her own life as the only example came acrosss as self-involved, and it really limited the whole scope of the book. She should have included her own story in the introduction as a way of framing her main points and then delved into the research in the body of the book.

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  • Nick
  • 26-03-17

Outstanding and life-changing.

The most intuitive, emotionally-intelligent boobs I have ever read. Recommended for everyone who have feelings or interact with other human beings!!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 01-09-12

Learn how to accept yourself

I found this book really easy to listen to. I like the narrator's style. The book was a series of strories with a life application and a good dose of humour and down-to-earthness. I found it made a lot of sense. It is not a list of "how to"s which I found a refreshing change. I am planning to listen to it again to make sure I squeeze every last drop of value out of it...

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  • Kat
  • 10-04-18

Great book but not Brene reading....

Another great book by Brene that you cant help but relate to and it somehow lets you understand yourself that bit better. Only draw back for me was that it wasn't Brene reading. Its just not the same. The reader was clear, well spoken and perfectly understandable but it just doesn't get the message across quite like Brene. Had of I spotted it wasn't Brene reading I would have tried the sample & unlikely would have purchased. With that as said its an excellent book. But would have preferred this one as a hardback rather than read by someone else.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 16-08-17

Brenè Brown speaks from the heart

Absolutely loved it. Narrator was a bit annoying at times but Brenè is a true gem. Funny, open and honest. It's a true journey that makes you think about your own life and owning your own imperfections.

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  • Ilias Papakonstantinou
  • 22-01-17

excellent material

this book is essential for everyone. it is very basic however a must listen. I will be suggesting that book to my team

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  • Gem
  • 03-09-17

Amazing

This is not a book you read one time.... nor do you read without pen, paper and highlighters.... as Brenes Browns admire Oprah would say.....a book of Dind Ding ah ha moments

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  • Sandra W
  • 24-01-14

Brilliant and very helpful.

If you could sum up The Gifts of Imperfection in three words, what would they be?

Thought-provoking. Helpful. Insightful.

What was one of the most memorable moments of The Gifts of Imperfection?

Realising I did some of the things mentioned and I could easily change this.

What about Lauren Fortgang’s performance did you like?

It was fine, she sounded like she was actually talking to you rather than reading but was a little robotic sounding when reading quotes.

If you made a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?

Be yourself: Life is too short to worry about what others think.

Any additional comments?

Definitely worth listening too, give it a chance it may just change your life.

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  • J. Casey
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  • 07-04-13

fantastic, wise and witty

I love this book - if you've seen Brene Brown's TED talk you'll already know her style - impassioned, funny and inpeciably researched. This book's practical in it's focus - lots of tools and ideas to help improve your ability to live a more 'whole hearted' life. The only disappointment is that Brene Brown doesn't narrate it.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 10-09-19

Don't listen on here.

I love Brene, anyone who follows her knows she is an amazing researcher, fantastic at explaining findings and most of all a top public speaker. If I didn't know those things after attempting to listen with a patronising narrator who doesn't deliver humour, I'd assume Brene was your average "I'm going to be self-deprecating so you don't feel so stupid but really, Duh you idiot" author on life. Buy the physical book or watch her talks, better still insist it be her narrating.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 03-01-18

Helpful and easy to listen to

This book is amazing, so helpful and informative. I’ve even brought hard copy to read again.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 21-11-18

Terrible audio! Get a hard copy instead!

I highly value the work and writing of Brene Brown. I found this book excruciatingly painful to listen to because the narrator completely misinterpreted Brene's voice as a writer. It's cheesy and shiny, and doesn't have any of the poetic beauty of Brene's dry wit and gritty honesty. Don't download this one. Buy a hard copy. Then go listen to any other book by written AND narrated Brene Brown. That's where the magic is.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 19-11-16

Mind spinning fun for your thoughts.

This is the 4th book of hers I have listened too. She shines a light on emotion from the inside out. If your life was a film, Brene would remove you as the main character and makes you the director. From here you can control and experience all that life is, not just participate in it.

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  • Belinda
  • 13-01-15

Fantastic down to earth book

Absolutely loved it. Brene is a genius wrapped up in the girl next door demeanour. Brilliant, insightful and life transforming.

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  • D. Birznieks
  • 20-04-17

Surprisingly challenging but inspiring

Loved the research based insights, skilfully and refreshingly communicated by a humble and generous professional and everyday human like the rest of us. It will challenge your thinking - particularly if you're a bit of perfectionist but also provides practical advice leaving you inspired about the future. Took me a few chapters to really get into it - fair few examples based on being a 'mom' - but will be playing it again for sure. Highly recommend it.

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  • Jarrod-Casey
  • 25-04-16

great messages

I believe that the messages within this book is relevant to everyone. Whether you are a parent, an executive, a house wife/husband... the messages are clear.

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  • Anthony Kelly
  • 21-07-19

Author tells it better

Would've loved to hear the author read it. I've heard her other works, and loved them.

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  • Rachel
  • 17-10-18

Some good insights, gently presented

There were enough interesting ideas in this book that I enjoyed it, but overall I didn’t love the style and tone. It took a little while to get going, but the second half felt a lot more practical and useful. There were definitely some helpful take-away ideas here.

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  • Rebecca Newman
  • 08-01-17

Just superb, especially for the high performer

If you're a high achiever, you'll get so much value out of this book. It's encouraging, heartening, and just plain smart. It leaves you feeling lighter, with a spring in your step.

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  • April Oakley
  • 26-10-16

Wonderful book

This really opened my eyes! Having struggled with numbing behaviours due to several mental illnesses, I can honestly say these words have helped, Brené is such a courageous woman ❤️

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  • Simon
  • 15-03-16

A wonderful book.

This thought provoking and well written book is inspiring and educational. I highly recommend it. The topics discussed are well researched and well delivered. I also love the personal and intimate stories shared by the author.

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