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Boundaries are the ways we communicate our needs. They are what allow us to feel safe among strangers, in everyday interactions, and in our closest relationships. When we have healthy boundaries, we have a strong foundation in an uncertain world. And when someone crosses your boundaries, or you cross someone else’s, the result range from unsettling to catastrophic.

In this audiobook, best-selling author Dr. Faith Harper offers a full understanding of issues of boundaries and consent, how we can communicate and listen more effectively, and how to survive and move on from situations where our boundaries are violated. 

Along the way, you’ll learn when and how to effectively say “no” (and “yes”), troubleshoot conflict, and respect your own and others’ boundaries like a pro. You’ll be amazed at how much these skills improve your relationships with friends, strangers, coworkers, and loved ones.     

©2016 Dr. Faith Harper (P)2020 Blackstone Publishing

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  • J. Herrera
  • 11-10-20

Some good points, but hard to listen to

There's some good content in this book - some points I actually wrote down for future reference. But the swear words and attempts at trendy language were completely out of place, and made the book difficult to listen to. I also take exception to her assertion that men are the almost exclusive perpetrators of coercive control. While women may not be as physical as men, we are just as controlling as them, many times in more emotionally manipulative ways.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 26-08-20

Absolutely fantastic!!!

it's short, but so much is packed in here. it really packs a punch, gives concrete examples and make excellent points. it's been a real game changer for me. what a great read!!

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  • Megan Lavalette
  • 08-07-20

My primary book recommendation to become a boundary badass

Start here if you’re looking to better understand what boundaries are and why you need them. After reading several books already on this topic, I enjoyed the sense of humor sprinkled throughout that made me laugh out loud many times, which helps alleviate some of the heaviness around this topic too.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 08-05-20

life changing

seriously what a game changer. I took 15 pages of notes. why isn't everybody taught this stuff in kindergarten?

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  • TKS
  • 09-09-20

Great read, great action points

This is a great read if you have a difficult time holding yourself accountable or feeling responsible for how others feel as a result of something you’ve said or done. There are many good pieces of information that you likely already know but, for whatever reason, you choose to ignore, that can help you to move forward in relationships.

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  • R. Rafii
  • 14-08-20

Skimming the surface

Very interesting, thought-provoking discussion. However, I was looking for something "meaty" and found some of the examples/stories too "fluffy" and light. I would have rather hear how she recommends applying the principles to true relationship scenarios, or how others have succeeded where setting boundaries was previously difficult.

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  • maria
  • 26-08-20

Fantastic

Dr. Harper you f*cking rock! Wish I had you as my therapist... I would be a baddie!

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  • Starlight Rose
  • 21-07-20

Must Read

I am going to buy several copies of this in physical form and give them away as gifts to family members who I know have struggled their whole lives with people pleasing. Great read.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 18-09-20

No! Excessive foul language.

Now let's be clear. I am one who doesn't mind sprinkling in a generous amount of expletives from time to time. But this was excessive. Ma'am you violated my boundaries.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 31-08-20

Life changing, very eye opening

Boundaries are broken down to the granular and explained in details, with very awesome examples to drill in the concepts.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 22-08-20

fucking great read

Really helpful and relatable content. 100% recommend to those who have issues with boundaries. vibes.

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