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"They wouldn't let me go past 40 weeks."
"They made me get an injection."
"I had to have a C-section."

This is the language of permission and it's so normal in birth culture that most of us don't even notice it.

In this episode, we're talking about how the words we use around birth quietly shape what we believe about our role in it. And our role in our birth is not a small thing.

Here's what we get into:

• Why language is never neutral including in birth
• What "let," "made," and "had to" are really communicating about your autonomy
• The legal principle of informed consent and why permission language doesn't reflect it
• How this starts in prenatal care, long before labor
• What ownership language sounds like in practice, with real examples
• Why this matters before, during, and after your birth, including what the research says about birth trauma and perceived control
• Why none of this is about going adversarial with your care team

This episode is for every pregnant woman, regardless of where or how she plans to give birth.

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