#56 - of Mixtape Therapy, Scottie and Hannah dive into the complicated, uncomfortable, and rewarding process of personal growth. They explore what it really means to become the best version of yourself — and how that journey can change the relationships around you. Scottie opens up about losing friendships, gaining more authentic connections, and learning that growth often comes with difficult conversations and rejection. Together, they unpack the tension between personal success and maintaining meaningful relationships, while questioning how we define “the best version” of ourselves in both art and everyday life. The conversation also touches on encouragement, validation, and the lasting impact of feeling truly supported. Scottie reflects on a song about Kanye West and his mother that deeply moved her, sparking a conversation about the kind of emotional space people need to pursue their passions. Hannah adds insight into how genuine encouragement often comes from doing the internal work ourselves rather than simply offering empty reassurance. They also discuss boundaries, parenting, therapy, addiction, and the balance between focusing on yourself while still showing up for others. Along the way, they wrestle with the complicated reality of loving people — and even appreciating art — while acknowledging flaws, mistakes, and the need for accountability. This episode is an honest conversation about growth, identity, support, and learning how to love people without losing yourself in the process.

Co-Hosts:

Hannah Shaper

https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

Scottie Gassner

https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

www.heyjustbe.com