She vanished without a word… and now she’s back like nothing happened.
What do you do?

In this episode of A Gentleman’s Guide, I break down the confusing dynamic of ghosting followed by a sudden return.
I share two personal stories — one romantic, one platonic — and explore what motivates this behaviour, how to interpret it, and most importantly, how to respond without losing your self-respect.

We’ll cover:
- Why people ghost and come back months later
- The most common (and flimsy) excuses
- How to tell if she’s sincere — or just seeking validation
- The three ways to respond (and when silence is best)
- Why outcome independence is the real superpower

If you’ve ever had someone dip out and reappear like nothing happened, this episode is for you.

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What do you do when you and your best friend fall for the same woman — on the same night? In this episode, Alexandre shares a true story from a pub crawl in Croatia that turned into an unexpected showdown of attraction, ego, and friendship.

Through this humorous yet insightful tale, he explores male dynamics, jealousy, and how to navigate tricky social situations without wrecking the mood—or your friendship. The big takeaway? Sometimes it’s not about “winning the girl”… it’s about keeping your integrity and
your friendships intact.

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In Episode 44, Alexandre digs into what big data really says about dating and long-term happiness. Spoiler: the traits we obsess over on apps - looks, height, job - barely predict relationship joy. Instead, your own mindset and emotional health matter way more. Discover why “shiny” qualities are overrated and how chemistry often grows over time with the underrated partners we overlook. Plus, the top four traits that truly predict lasting love. Ready to stop dating wrong? Tune in!

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Join me on A Gentleman’s Guide and share your story, insights, or curiosity with the world.
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