In this episode of ADHD Eavesdrop, an ADHD podcast for adults, Janine sits down with Leah Caroll, an ADHD life and mindset coach, to talk about adult ADHD, overwhelm, and why ADHD isn’t your fault.

Leah shares her lived experience with late-diagnosed ADHD, burnout, and years of feeling like life was harder than it should be. Together, Janine and Leah explore how executive dysfunction, shame, and all-or-nothing thinking keep many adults with ADHD stuck — even when they’re smart, capable, and trying their best.

This honest conversation focuses on what actually helps people with ADHD feel more in control: reducing overwhelm instead of chasing perfect systems, building habits that work with an ADHD brain, and replacing self-criticism with curiosity and self-compassion.

If you’ve ever wondered why routines don’t stick, why motivation feels inconsistent, or why you feel exhausted by daily life, this episode offers validation, practical insight, and a gentler way forward.

Find Leah!:

w: leahccoaching.com

i: @adhd.coach.leah

l: Leah Carroll

f: ADHD: Now What?!

00:00 – ADHD Isn’t Your Fault Why ADHD is about wiring, not willpower — and how shame keeps people stuck

02:15 – Leah’s ADHD Story & Late Diagnosis Burnout, meds, and realizing life didn’t have to feel this hard

05:45 – Burnout, Identity, and Starting Over Quitting everything and what it taught Leah about adult ADHD

09:30 – Executive Dysfunction Explained Why “just try harder” doesn’t work for ADHD brains

13:00 – Pills Don’t Teach Skills Where medication helps — and where coaching matters most

16:30 – Reducing Overwhelm Without Perfection Why small, realistic changes beat total life overhauls

19:45 – Consistency vs. Persistence Why flexible routines work better than rigid plans

23:00 – Habits That Actually Stick Keys on hooks, tiny systems, and ADHD-friendly habit building

26:15 – Curiosity Over Self-Criticism Breaking shame cycles and rewriting the ADHD inner voice

29:45 – Advice to Our Younger ADHD Selves Self-compassion, safety, and progress over perfection