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Aces Up Your Sleeve

Aces Up Your Sleeve

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Join Kade and Sabrina, two a-spec autistic therapists, and their special guests as they help you navigate relationships.

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Episodes
  • Coming Out as Asexual
    Feb 3 2026

    Are you worried you might hurt your partner’s feelings if you were to come out as ace, demi, or on the asexuality-spectrum in general? We’re covering that on this week’s episode of the Aces Up Your Sleeve podcast! We explore ways to express yourself to your partner(s) and give a strong reminder that your identity exploration is ultimately not about your partner's worth- it's about understanding your own desires and yourself. If you’re feeling ready to have that conversation, come listen!

    On Upping the Ante, our free bonus content here on Patreon, we explore how to tell new dates that you’re on the asexuality spectrum. We also discuss how to bring it up to your therapist (and how to look for red flags!)

    To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys

    Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast

    Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG)

    Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)


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    34 mins
  • Neurodivergent Flirting Skills
    Jan 27 2026

    Need to brush up on your Neurodivergent Flirting Skills? Flirting can feel like a complex game with no clear rules, especially in the context of modern dating. In the latest episode of the Aces Up Your Sleeve podcast, we explore the nuances of flirting, how to recognize when someone is interested, the challenges of interpreting intentions, and how to approach flirting in a more effective way for autistic folks! You’re right at home if you feel like you’re playing a game that’s outside of your control. Join us to hear what to do about that.

    On Upping the Ante here on Patreon, we take this a step further by discussing how to avoid giving off desperate energy and how to phrase things on dating apps. We also uncover some reasons you might be getting ghosted or left on Read that have nothing to do with YOU and how you’re showing up!

    To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys

    Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast

    Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG)

    Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)


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    33 mins
  • Autistic Millennials
    Jan 20 2026

    Whether you’re a millennial or not, you may be wondering why so many millennials are suddenly realizing they’re autistic! We attempt to answer that, as well as provide insight about autistic millennials in general and what similarities we have (if any.) Is it a Tiktok Diagnosis, a trend, or deep self-realizations?

    On Upping the Ante, we talk about what it was like to be parented by different generations of neurodivergent parents. If you’ve ever felt like it was a little tough growing up and want to commiserate with us, join us over on Patreon for this free bonus content!

    To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys

    Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast

    Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG)

    Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)


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    31 mins
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