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In this episode of 'Actually, I Like My Spouse,' we dive into our weekly segment called 'Love It or Leave It,' where we discuss some of the hottest relationship takes from the internet. We tackle topics like the importance of weekly date nights, whether to go to bed angry, if your partner should be your best friend, and the famous saying 'Happy Wife, Happy Life.' We also talk about the necessity of separate bank accounts, the benefits of therapy for couples, sharing phone passwords, and setting realistic boundaries in relationships. Join us as we share our perspectives and insights!

00:00 Introduction to 'Love It or Leave It'

00:41 Date Nights: Weekly Ritual or Unrealistic Pressure?

02:47 Never Go to Bed Angry: Toxic Positivity or Peace Practice?

04:50 Should Your Partner Be Your Best Friend?

06:56 Happy Wife, Happy Life: Wisdom or Low Effort?

08:38 Separate Bank Accounts: Financial Independence or Division?

10:18 Couples Therapy: Preventative or Overkill?

12:28 Knowing Each Other's Phone Passwords: Trust or Control?

13:30 Can Your Partner Be Your Everything?

14:30 Should You Have to Ask for What You Need?

15:15 Conclusion and Podcast Promotion

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It’s not a fight against each other, it’s fight against the problem.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:41 Technical Difficulties and Reshoot

02:33 Emotional Impact of Reshooting

04:40 Navigating Personal Challenges

06:07 Commitment and Authenticity

07:13 Love, Heal, Inspire

11:11 Your Spouse Is Not The Enemy

12:22 A Little Bit About A Lot with Big Daddy Mike

12:36 The History of Black Television

17:07 Why We Sometimes Feel Like Our Spouse Is The Enemy

28:47 Emotional Hijacking and The Real Enemy

34:02 Ego and Individuality in Modern Marriages

35:27 Core Values and Communication

35:58 Invisible Labor and Relationship Dynamics

37:56 Resentment and Stonewalling

47:22 Trusting in God's Plan

49:42 Shifting Mindsets and Conflict Resolution

01:02:40 The Importance of Friendship in Marriage

01:06:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Discover the truth about your marriage and learn how to strengthen your relationship by shifting your perspective. In this video, we explore the common misconception that our spouse is the enemy, and how this mindset can harm our marriage. By recognizing that our partner is not the adversary, we can work together to build a stronger, more loving relationship. Learn how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and nurture a deeper connection with your spouse. If you're looking for a more harmonious and fulfilling marriage, this video is for you. Watch now and start building a stronger, happier relationship with your partner.

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00:00 Introduction to Relationship Goals

00:17 Welcome Back and Personal Updates

01:12 Defining Relationship Goals

01:30 The Great Lock In and Marriage Goals

03:49 Individualism in Marriage

04:31 Reflecting on Personal Goals

05:51 Supporting Each Other's Goals

08:46 Quentin Tarantino's Life-Changing Reflection

11:27 Role-Playing Exercise for Goal Setting

14:07 Career Reflections and Lessons Learned

24:43 Struggles in Medical School

25:03 Discovering Fashion Merchandising

26:18 Transition to Fashion Blogging

27:11 Chasing Money in Tech

28:40 Entrepreneurial Lessons Learned

33:50 Revisiting Dreams and Goals

41:32 Setting Realistic Goals for Couples

43:31 Encouragement for Couples and Individuals

47:51 Conclusion and Future Plans

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00:00 Introduction: Why Marriage Feels Hard

00:27 The Real Problem: It's You

00:48 Internal Baggage and Its Impact

03:40 The Journey Back Home: Self-Love, Self-Worth, and Self-Forgiveness

05:20 Self-Love: The Foundation of a Healthy Marriage

21:31 Self-Worth: Believing You Are Enough

22:20 Cultural Expectations and Self-Worth

23:04 Personal Journey to Self-Worth

23:34 The Role of Worthiness in Relationships

25:58 Navigating Worthiness in Marriage

33:39 The Power of Self-Forgiveness

46:00 Building a Supportive Community#marriageadvice

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Welcome back to 'Actually, I Like My Spouse!' In this episode, Michael and Kreasha Webley dive deep into the foundation of a great marriage and whether marriage lives up to the hype. We discuss the importance of fun, faith, and friendship in a relationship, share personal stories from our journey, and offer tips on handling unmet expectations within a marriage. We also explore the concept of invisible labor, the significance of communication, and the need for setting realistic expectations. Plus, don't miss out on our 'Actually I Like My Spouse Weekly Scorecard' to help you and your partner improve your relationship. Join us for an insightful and candid conversation on love, marriage, and everything in between!

00:00 Welcome Back to 'I Like My Spouse'

00:44 Launching Our Podcast: Reflections and Feelings

03:49 Does Marriage Live Up to the Hype?

09:12 Expectations vs. Reality in Marriage

22:27 The Role of Faith and Friendship in Marriage

25:38 Understanding Contempt in Relationships

26:40 Unspoken Expectations and Communication

27:19 Using 'I' Statements to Improve Communication

28:54 Silent Score Keeping in Relationships

30:27 Addressing Unmet Expectations Around Intimacy

31:12 The Importance of Setting the Stage for Conversations

35:39 Unacknowledged Invisible Labor

38:57 The Role of Communication in Managing Expectations

43:02 Baseline Expectations in Partnerships

47:19 Weekly Scorecard Challenge#marraigecouple #marriageadvice #communicationinmarriage #silenttreatment #communicationskills

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In this episode, we dive deep into maintaining intimacy in long-term monogamous relationships. We discuss the importance of flirting, both inside and outside of your relationship, and address how playful interactions can reignite desire between partners. We also share practical tips on creating a more intimate environment and discuss ways to maintain mystery and exploration in your relationship. Listen as we recount personal anecdotes, present intriguing research, and offer actionable advice for couples seeking to keep their fire burning bright.

00:00 Introduction to Rekindling Intimacy

00:25 Welcome Back: Episode Two

01:27 Special K's Segment: A Little About A Lot

02:15 Psychoactives and Personal Experiences

04:58 The Ayahuasca Journey and Bad Trips

08:45 Meditation and Self-Discovery

10:47 Flirting in Long-Term Relationships

27:04 Emotional Affairs vs. Flirtation

27:28 Flirting Within Relationships

28:44 Three Flirtatious Tips for Women

30:55 Three Flirtatious Tips for Men

41:58 The Importance of Mystery in Relationships

46:07 Spicing Up Long-Term Relationships

50:11 Intimacy Challenges and Communication

53:35 Conclusion and Viewer Engagement

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Hey loves! It's The Webley's, Kreasha and Michael here, welcoming you to 'Actually, I Like My Spouse' podcast. We believe a great marriage is rooted in fun, anchored in faith, and fueled by friendship. Join us in our living room as we dive deep into the essence of love and like in long-term partnerships. We explore how having meaningful conversations can be an anchor in marriage and discuss the importance of feeling safe with your partner to share differing opinions. We'll also touch on how our relationships evolve and the necessity of being curious about the new versions of each other. Get ready for real talk on the difference between love and like, maintaining attraction, and re-learning your partner. Don't forget to take our 'Actually I Like My Spouse' quiz to get personalized tips. https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse

Tune in every Wednesday for more insights and connection. Let's grow together!

00:00 Welcome to the Podcast

00:51 Setting the Scene: Our Home Studio

01:18 The Importance of Conversations in Marriage

02:43 Friendship as the Foundation of Relationships

03:21 Generational Perspectives on Relationships

06:33 Introducing Today's Topic: Like vs. Love

08:31 A Little About a Lot with Special K

11:26 Personal Reflections on Self-Love and Partnership

15:05 Early Stages of Love and Like

23:53 Navigating Expectations in Relationships

26:16 The Significance of Liking Your Partner

27:56 Foundations of a Strong Relationship

28:38 The Importance of Liking Your Partner

30:53 Rekindling Friendships and Partnerships

34:00 Adapting to Changes in Relationships

37:20 Maintaining Attraction Over Time

46:42 Growing Together Through Life's Seasons

51:50 Challenge of the Week and Final Thoughts

Launching August 6th!

In the prelaunch Episode 0 of the 'Actually, I Like My Spouse,' Podcast hosts Michael and Kreasha Webley discuss their motivations for starting a podcast centered around sharing their positive and fulfilling marriage experiences. Feeling called by God and reflecting on their 12 years together, they aim to counter the dominant narrative that marriage is difficult and uninspiring. They highlight the importance of maintaining love and connection in marriage, sharing their journey in real-time to inspire and relate with others.

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00:00 Introduction to Our Podcast

00:09 Why We Started This Podcast

00:54 The Blessing of Marriage

01:27 Changing the Narrative on Marriage

01:53 Staying in Love

02:55 Our Journey and Invitation

03:14 Authenticity in Sharing