In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Jaydi Samuels Kuba — a Hollywood matchmaker, dating coach, and former Family Guy writer — to talk all things modern dating and what it really takes to find a lasting relationship. Jaydi shares insights from her newly released book, Your Last First Date: Secrets From a Hollywood Matchmaker (out January 27), and breaks down why dating can feel extra complicated in high-pressure worlds like entertainment (and honestly… just in general these days).

We get into her matchmaking philosophy — focusing on quality, true compatibility, and ethical boundaries, rather than promising a certain number of “matches” like some high-cost agencies. Jaydi also opens up about her own love story, including the wild (and very unconventional) way she met her husband… who was originally a client, and yes, she eventually broke her own rules.

Plus, she gives practical, actionable advice you can actually use right now: how to navigate physical attraction, communicate boundaries without killing the vibe, and update your online dating profile so it reflects the real you (and attracts the right people).

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In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Reality Steve and we’re breaking down the latest Bachelor Nation headlines. We kick things off with Mel Owens and his final pick Peg Munson, and share why their recent podcast appearances came off defensive and rubbed a lot of people the wrong way.

Then we get into Kat Izzo spilling the tea on her breakup with Dale Moss—what she’s said publicly, what stood out to us, and why Bachelor Nation can’t stop talking about it...

We also weigh in on the controversial casting of Colton Underwood on The Traitors, share an update on the ongoing legal investigation involving Laura Owens, and wrap with a few lighter tangents on nostalgic pop culture, winter weather, and whatever we’re currently into. Hot takes, honest opinions, and plenty of laughs along the way.

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In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my husband, Humberto Ramon Preciado — back on the mic with me after a long break. We’re sharing a real-life catch-up on what’s been going on behind the scenes, from his career shift (from criminal prosecutor to personal injury attorney at a local firm) to some eye-opening thoughts on insurance, work culture, and what he’s learned along the way.

We also get into the heart of our current season: parenting three little ones. Humberto opens up about what it was really like running the house solo while I was away filming, and we talk honestly about the chaos, the pressure, and what actually helped us get through it. Routine worked because it gave the kids predictability and gave Humberto a game plan. Same anchors every day = fewer power struggles, less chaos, and more peace.

Along the way, we touch on Humberto’s personal backstory — including his early FBI dreams and the academic path that helped shape his career — and we wrap things up with a few sweet kid milestone updates and some fun streaming TV recommendations to add to your watch list.

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In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by registered dietitian Abbey Sharp for a refreshing, evidence-based conversation about nutrition that isn’t rooted in restriction or diet culture. Abbey breaks down her “Hunger Crushing Combo” — a simple framework built around fiber, protein, and healthy fats — and explains why focusing on what you can add to your plate is often more sustainable than obsessing over what to cut out.

Abbey also opens up about her personal history with orthorexia and how that experience shaped her mission to help people build a more peaceful relationship with food. We talk about blood sugar balance, honoring hunger cues, and what “healthy” can look like when it’s actually realistic for real life.

Plus, we get into the impact of social media on body image, along with practical wellness topics like supplements, sleep, and navigating nutrition through menopause. If you’re looking for a grounded approach to feeling your best — without the all-or-nothing mindset — this episode is for you.

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In this episode, I’m joined by Wanda Battle — a Montgomery native, historian, and the founder of Legendary Tours — for a conversation that feels like stepping straight into living history. Wanda shares what it was like growing up in a segregated community with deep family ties to the Civil Rights Movement, and how those experiences shaped her lifelong mission to spread unity, light, and understanding through storytelling and music.

Wanda also reflects on her time as a curator at the Dexter Avenue King Memorial Baptist Church, offering a powerful, personal perspective on the leadership and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., as well as Reverend Vernon Johns. Along the way, she shares meaningful memories from her tours, including a moving encounter with a former guest that captures exactly why Wanda’s presence leaves such a lasting impact.

Beyond the history, Wanda opens up about her own journey through adversity, what self-forgiveness has taught her, and why she believes choosing happiness and love is a daily decision — especially in today’s world. This conversation is a reminder to stay hopeful, stay curious, and keep our light on.

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Kicking off 2026, I’m coming out of the holiday chaos and back into a routine — and I’m sharing my vision for the year ahead. I’m breaking down the goals I’m focusing on across my four pillars: family systems, health and longevity, career growth, and community — because if I don’t get organized, nobody in this house will.

I also get personal about pregnancy in my 40s and how it’s made me reflect on the emotional, bittersweet shift out of the childbearing years. Mandy Moore shared a post that really stuck with me, and it opened up a bigger conversation about what this season looks like — physically, mentally, and emotionally — when you’re building a life and a family at the same time.

And of course, we’re not skipping the headlines. I’m sharing the pop culture moments that stood out — including Spencer Pratt’s political aspirations — plus Bachelor Nation updates and my latest take on Mel Owens and Peg (yes, I’ve changed my tune). We also get into the late-night comment drama making the rounds… and I’m asking the question everyone’s thinking: is this “mean girl” behavior, or are people just being too sensitive? It’s equal parts intention-setting and “did you SEE this?” energy. Welcome to 2026 with me.

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I’m joined by Bachelor Nation favorite Ben Higgins, and we’re talking about what life really looks like after reality TV — from stepping into fatherhood to finding a deeper sense of purpose.

Ben opens up about the emotions of celebrating his daughter’s first Christmas, the personal growth he’s experienced since his Bachelor days, and how his spiritual journey has evolved over the years. We also dive into the expanded edition of his book, Alone in Plain Sight, where he explores loneliness, vulnerability, and faith in a way that feels honest and relatable.

We talk about why he’s shifted toward service and philanthropy, how Generous Coffee has become part of that mission, and the work he’s passionate about when it comes to supporting people experiencing homelessness. Ben also shares what he’s building next — including upcoming faith-based programming with iHeartMedia — and gives his take on the current state of the Bachelor franchise.

This conversation is heartfelt, real, and grounding… and Ben’s message is simple: you’re not alone, and there’s always a way back to connection and purpose.

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On this episode of After Reality, Reality Steve joins me to dig into the latest Bachelor Nation drama — starting with Taylor Frankie Paul’s headline-making turn as the new Bachelorette. We get into why her casting is shaking up the franchise, the early behind-the-scenes tea, and what this shift says about the future of the show.

We also tackle a few current Bachelor Nation headlines — yes, including a certain podcaster’s recent mom-shaming blunder (looking at you, Nick Viall). Consider this our friendly reminder that if you don’t have something supportive to say… maybe don’t say it on a podcast with millions of listeners.

Plus, I’m sharing my updated take on Mel Owens and Peg — because I’ve officially changed my tune, and I’m prepared to eat a little humble pie over it.

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