It’s Aisle Be the Judge: After Dark — where the wine is poured, the PJs are on, and the outline… was never opened. Chelsey and Cacie are in full cozy-chaos mode this week, catching up on life, industry whispers, and one very spicy opinion that might ruffle a few creative-team feathers. Let’s just say: somebody’s stepping on somebody’s toes… and Chelsey has thoughts.

Cacie + Chelsey are officially back from their summer hiatus and kicking off the fall season of Aisle Be the Judge! Season one is heating up again, and we’re coming in hot with a mix of pop culture, wedding industry realness, and the tea you didn’t know you needed.

This week we’re covering all things Taylor Swift (because obviously), unpacking what’s in and what’s out as we head into peak wedding season, and giving our unfiltered takes on the industry trends you’re seeing flood your feeds. From the styles we’re loving to the ones we’re ready to retire, nothing is off-limits.

Think of it as your post-summer catch-up call with two friends who will spill, sip, and side-eye their way through the week’s most pressing topics.

Today’s couples aren’t just breaking the mold—they’re straight-up tossing it. We sat down with Biana and Erica of Estera Events to talk all things Gen Z weddings: why tradition is optional, confidence is non-negotiable, and risk is officially in. From unstructured timelines to personal style over Pinterest trends, this episode dives into how a new generation is rewriting the wedding rulebook—and doing it on their own terms.

In this engaging conversation, Cacie, Chelsey, and Samantha discuss the nuances of networking, emphasizing its importance as a form of business development rather than just socializing. They explore the significance of listening, authenticity, and building meaningful connections in the industry. The discussion also highlights the challenges faced by introverts in networking situations and offers practical advice for navigating events. Samantha Leenheer, a guest speaker, shares insights on her experiences with networking and the unique approach of Kinetic Experiences, a boutique gathering for wedding and event professionals.

This week, we’re joined by photographer and educator Molly McCauley to talk all things editorials—when they’re worth it, how to make them strategic, and why styled shoots still have a place in building a brand that books.

Make Pretty Workshops

In this episode, we’re joined by Sarah Schreiber—former Digital Editor at Martha Stewart Weddings and Brides—to dive into the evolution of wedding publications. We talk about where they’ve been, where they are now, and what really makes a submission stand out. Is there a secret sauce to getting published? Sarah spills the tea.

Welcome to Aisle Be the Judge! In our very first episode, we (Cacie + Chelsey) introduce ourselves, share what this podcast is all about, and dive into a rapid fire round of hot takes submitted by our Instagram community. From vendor pet peeves to overused trends, we’re kicking things off with opinions, laughs, and maybe a little controversy—in the best way. Let’s set the tone, spill some (respectful) tea, and have some fun.