Are Autistic People Rude? Or Just Direct?
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Are Autistic People Rude? Or Just Direct?
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Many autistic adults grow up being told they’re rude, blunt, cold, or insensitive, even when they’re trying to be honest, clear, or kind.
In this episode, we unpack where that label comes from, why it sticks so painfully, and what’s actually happening beneath the surface. We explore autistic communication styles, the mismatch between autistic and neurotypical social expectations, and how directness often gets mistaken for disrespect.
This isn’t about teaching autistic people to mask better.
It’s about understanding the double empathy problem, reclaiming clarity as a strength, and letting go of shame that was never earned.
If you’ve ever been told to “say it nicer,” “soften your tone,” or felt misunderstood just for being yourself - this episode is for you.
More resources here:
https://www.heyasd.com/blogs/autism/are-autistic-people-rude