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Ask Ashley: The Podcast

Ask Ashley: The Podcast

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Do you know what unites women everywhere? The unbelievable, hilariously offensive shit we go through – from failed relationships and disaster dates to trying to balance marriage and parenting a terrorist-like three year old. You know what makes all of us okay? Laughing about it with your best friend. Welcome to Ask Ashley – a hilariously refreshing podcast brought to you by @dearyoungqueen. Join our founder, Ashley W., and her bestie, Ashley North, celebrity stylist, for their intimate, unapologetic, unfiltered weekly check-in, as these two friends on opposite coasts coach each other through this thing called life.

© 2026 Ask Ashley: The Podcast
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  • He Wants Therapy… Alone???
    Apr 11 2026

    They’re backkk!! Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week discussing sober living, surgery tables, and men who really should’ve stayed quiet.


    02:20 – Weekly Catch Up: IVF
    Wait… eggs in the freezer? And it’s more than a dozen?! It’s been a long time coming, but Ashley W has officially taken the next steps toward becoming a mother. Whether motherhood is in her future or not, the peace of mind? Priceless. She breaks down the full process, the costs, and what no one tells you about it.


    18:25 – Weekly Catch Up: Colonoscopy
    Ashley W isn’t the only one laying on a doctor’s table… Ashley N was too—just a different entry point. 😭 Ash N went in for a checkup and left with a colonoscopy appointment. Doctors have officially lowered the age, so consider this your sign to book those appointments, ladies.


    26:41 – Things I Saw On The Internet!
    There’s a pink iPad on TikTok that has the girlies in a chokehold. The Ashleys didn’t realize they were late to the party but who cares?! They’ve arrived and they love it here. From trolling men to chaotic storytimes, @shondarhimesstanaccount might just be their newest obsession.


    35:25 – It’s TV Time!
    The resident TV guru is back on her throne with not 1, not 2, not 3, but 4 recommendations this week. From Paradise to Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette, hope your streaming subscriptions are up to date becauseyour watchlist is about to be booked and busy.


    39:45 – @dearyoungqueen Meme of the Week
    How do you call someone’s therapist and tell them what’s really going on? 👀 Easy… join the session. Or better yet… stop them from going altogether? Ashley N weighs in, with personal experience hiring (and firing) therapists depending on the season.


    51:26 – It’s Question Time!
    Who complains the most? Who’s lowkey repetitive? Who’s the ultimate problem solver? And can anyone actually get through to Ashley?! The girls unpack it all.

    Support the show

    🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up.

    You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs.

    📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast

    Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    ©DearYoungQueen . All Rights Reserved.

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Big Sis Advice
    Mar 28 2026

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week discussing homage packs and forgotten remixes, unpacking a viral think piece on dating, and dropping a few truth bombs on why so many women are choosing themselves instead of settling. It’s honest, layered, and full of laughs along the way.


    00:22 - Kehlani’s “Folded” Remixes

    The Ashley’s break down Kehlani’s “Folded” remixes featuring Brandy, Toni Braxton, JoJo, and the men who… didn’t quite deliver. Can someone get Usher on the line?


    08:01 - Ashley + Ashley Take on the “Sing It in the Group Chat” Trend

    Turns out Kehlani can REALLY sing… and well, Ashley + Ashley cannot. Would your friends hit the notes? The Ashley’s enter confident and leave with mixed results.


    11:18 - Throwback Remix Culture (Deuces Era)

    Speaking of remixes, do you remember the stacked “Deuces” lineup. The Ashley’s have questions! Why don’t we get moments like this anymore?!?


    18:35 - Things I Saw on the Internet: Dating in 2026

    A viral Substack post about dating in 2026 hits close to home opens the door to a bigger conversation Ashley + Ashley couldn’t help me address. The Ashley’s break down what women actually want, the disconnect between men and women, and why peace is no longer negotiable.


    30:05 - What Women Actually Want: Hinge Data Enters the Chat

    After the viral post, real data enters the conversation. The Ashley’s break down what women actually want and the disconnect between what men think women want vs. what they’re actually asking for


    41:29 - @DearYoungQueen Meme of the Week

    “If my bra matches my panties… it wasn’t you who decided we’re having sex.” The Ashley’s unpack the real effort that goes into getting ready for a a sexy evening. From wax appointments to special showers to realizingthe harsh truth… men don’t even care about the matching set 😭


    50:13 - TV Time: Love Is Blind, Love Island All Stars & Why Reality TV Might Actually Make You Smarter

    Reality TV haters, this one’s for you. Ashley + Ashley argue that watching reality TV might actually make you smarter. Don’t debate them, debate your mother. From Love Is Blind (Ohio?) to Love Island All Stars, they break down what’s worth watching, what’s not, and why the drama still delivers.


    1:03:08 - It’s Question Time!

    The Ashleys get into pubic hair preferences, who would get canceled first, Mexican food preferences, and which rapper they’d confidently (or not) battle for the money.


    Support the show

    🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up.

    You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs.

    📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast

    Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    ©DearYoungQueen . All Rights Reserved.

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    1 hr and 18 mins
  • Why Can't I Hear God? Feat Dinorah Peña
    Feb 7 2026

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with entrepreneur and ministry leader Dinorah Peña, founder of Seed, Sow, Harvest — a growing community born from an unexpected calling that led her from talent management into women’s ministry.

    What unfolds is a deeply honest conversation about obedience, identity, spiritual awakening, and what it really looks like to experience God for yourself.

    00:30 - Starting the episode with a prayer? YES please!
    Dinorah sets the intention for a conversation rooted in faith, purpose, and impact from the very beginning.

    03:33 - Making Idols
    What happens when the very thing you prayed for quietly becomes the thing pulling you away from God? Dinorah gets incredibly real about the season that brought her to her knees and the uncomfortable realization that her business, her title, and even her productivity had started taking up too much space in her life.

    25:10 - Seed, Sow, Harvest
    After hundreds of women showed up to a virtual Bible study, it became clear this wasn’t just a moment… it was a calling. Whether you’re deeply rooted in your faith, newly curious, or still figuring it all out, there is room for you at Seed Sow Harvest. The beautiful reality? This space isn’t just for the “church girls.” It’s for everyone.

    31:36 - Knowing God vs. Experiencing God
    The ladies play a clip that hits a nerve: there’s a difference between knowing about God and actually experiencing Him. Ashley W shares the moment her faith became personal in a hospital waiting room. Dinorah opens up about a childhood encounter that still gives her chills. But it’s Ashley N who sparks a conversation so many people quietly wrestle with: what if you believe, you pray, you try… but still feel like you don’t hear God the way others say they do?

    1:06:44 - Church Homes & Songs That Carry You
    Question Time gets personal when the conversation turns to something many believers struggle with: why is it so hard to find a church home after you move?

    Ashley, Ashley + Dinorah talk being “digital disciples,” outgrowing certain spaces, craving teaching that truly feeds you, and the worship songs that have carried them through different seasons — the ones that instantly bring them back to God’s presence.

    Connect with Dinorah Peña:
    Website: https://seedsowharvest.com
    Instagram: @seedsowharvest
    Instagram: @dinorahpena

    Support the show

    🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up.

    You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs.

    📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast

    Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    ©DearYoungQueen . All Rights Reserved.

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    1 hr and 17 mins
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