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Ask Don't Tell

Ask Don't Tell

Written by: Oscar Subirats
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As a best selling author, keynote speaker and leading sales coach, I have found the secret to selling - stop talking and start listening. The best sales people actually care about the people they are selling to and show it. Each week on my show, I provide you with game changing tips and tools in how to be a world class seller without being an ass.2025 Economics Marketing Marketing & Sales
Episodes
  • Identity Is the Real Bottleneck with Jeff Munn | #23
    Jan 22 2026

    What if the thing holding you back as a leader isn't strategy, skill, or effort—but who you believe you are?

    In this episode, Oscar sits down with executive coach Jeff Munn to unpack why most founders, CEOs, and high performers stay stuck even after reading the books, attending the seminars, and "doing all the right things." Jeff shares how outdated identities, unconscious fears, and internal wiring quietly sabotage leadership, decision-making, and growth—and why tactics only work after the inner work is done. Together, they explore how powerful questions, deep listening, and silence can unlock clarity, confidence, and real change.

    Key takeaways include:

    • Why "what got you here won't take you there" is an identity problem, not a skill gap
    • How fear—not logic—is usually the real reason people don't take action
    • Why great leaders (and great sellers) ask better questions instead of giving better advice

    If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated despite doing everything "right," this conversation might be the wake-up call you didn't know you needed. Lean in—and be ready to rethink who's really in your way.

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    51 mins
  • Tell Me More, Lead Better with Joel Worthington | #22
    Jan 1 2026
    Most leaders don't fail because they lack strategy—they fail because they stop listening.

    In this episode of Ask Don't Tell, Oscar Subirats sits down with leadership speaker and author Joel Worthington, creator of the Tell Me More philosophy, to unpack why asking better questions—not giving better directives—is the missing link in modern leadership. Joel breaks down how emotional intelligence, trust, and genuine curiosity transform disengaged employees into true followers, and why most organizations unknowingly sabotage themselves with fear-based communication.

    Together, they explore how leadership is really about influence, energy, and connection—and why slowing down to ask one better question can change the trajectory of your team, your culture, and your results.

    Key takeaways include:

    • Why "Tell Me More" is the most powerful phrase a leader can use
    • How directive leadership kills buy-in, energy, and trust
    • Joel's GUIDE framework for leading with clarity, empathy, and strategy

    If you want people who follow you—not just work for you—this conversation will challenge how you lead, listen, and show up every day.

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    39 mins
  • Unlocking the Power of Laughter in Business with Kevin Hubschmann | #21
    Dec 12 2025

    Summary

    In this conversation, Kevin Hubschmann discusses the concept of 'Laughter as a Service' and how comedy can be integrated into corporate environments to enhance professional skills and team dynamics. He shares insights on the benefits of improv training, the psychology of laughter, and the importance of authenticity in sales. Kevin emphasizes the need for deep discovery in sales conversations and how rebranding can help overcome objections. The discussion highlights the value of building relationships and making clients feel like rock stars through effective communication and humor.

    Takeaways

    • Laughter can significantly improve workplace dynamics.
    • Comedy skills can enhance professional development and sales effectiveness.
    • Improv training fosters better listening and collaboration skills.
    • Authenticity in sales leads to stronger client relationships.
    • Understanding the psychology of laughter can enhance team building activities.
    • Rebranding services can help overcome common objections in sales.
    • Deep discovery in conversations leads to better solutions for clients.
    • Building champions within organizations can lead to long-term partnerships.
    • Creating a fun and engaging environment can improve learning outcomes.
    • Sales success often comes from making clients feel valued and understood.
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    43 mins
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