In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "My niece recently came out and told the family that she is transgender. I’m not even sure I fully understand what that means. Now, apparently, she has a girlfriend. I have been a Christian my whole life and this just goes against everything I believe. We are getting ready for a family gathering at my house and she wants to know if she can bring her girlfriend. How do I handle this? Is allowing the girlfriend to come being loving or condoning their behavior?"

Dr. Chuck Betters, drawing from his own faith struggles—especially the tragic loss of his sixteen-year-old son, Mark—has assisted countless individuals facing similar challenges over more than five decades of ministry. He finds hope in the belief that God is sovereign and can be trusted.

In a world filled with brokenness and despair, "Ask Dr. Betters" is a unique video forum where Dr. Betters and his guests provide clear, biblical answers to life’s pressing questions about suffering and living by faith in a broken world.

Do you have a question you need answered? Leave your questions in the comments of any video. We are excited to hear from you. Thank you for your support, and welcome to the MARKINC Family!

Ask Dr. Betters is produced by MARKINC Ministries and is not intended to replace professional counseling; rather, it aims to highlight Biblical principles related to the questions being asked. If you need professional help, we encourage you to seek it. Qualified counselors are available to assist you at Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling. Please see the links below for more information about Anchored Virtual and the other free resources offered by MARKINC Ministries.

We need your support to ensure that MARKINC can continue providing these valuable free resources and keep Ask Dr. Betters accessible. Please consider donating to MARKINC Ministries to help us offer hope to those in need. You can safely donate through our website, mobile app, or by using this link: https://markinc.org/donate/. Thank you for your generosity!

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Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling is an online counseling service that seeks to practically help hurting people by anchoring their hope in Jesus and gaining a better understanding of His promises. They offer reputable, affordable, Biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing hard times, so they are better equipped to persevere by faith. https://anchoredvirtual.com/​

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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “All my life I’ve been attracted to the same sex, going back to early childhood (elementary school age). I’ve heard we’re born straight, gay, or bi. I’ve heard as a Christian that it’s a sin. I believe it is. I have never acted upon with it another man, only in thought and through fleshly pleasures. I am saved and baptized. I believe in God, in Christ. I’ve accepted Him as my creator and Savior and Lord. But I’m torn between why I’m gay and why He has never taken it from me. I’ve prayed for it to be taken, I’ve tried giving up the thoughts and feelings of sexual desire towards men. It never goes away! I hate it! It has consumed my entire life in every way and has ruined my life since middle school. I need help! What am I doing wrong to get rid of it? Am I to live with it till death yet learn to not act or think on it? Please help, Dr. Betters. I’m at the point of giving up on God or dying now to have the peace I hear of in heaven.”

Dr. Chuck Betters, drawing from his own faith struggles—especially the tragic loss of his sixteen-year-old son, Mark—has assisted countless individuals facing similar challenges over more than five decades of ministry. He finds hope in the belief that God is sovereign and can be trusted.

In a world filled with brokenness and despair, "Ask Dr. Betters" is a unique video forum where Dr. Betters and his guests provide clear, biblical answers to life’s pressing questions about suffering and living by faith in a broken world.

Do you have a question you need answered? Leave your questions in the comments of any video. We are excited to hear from you. Thank you for your support, and welcome to the MARKINC Family!

Ask Dr. Betters is produced by MARKINC Ministries and is not intended to replace professional counseling; rather, it aims to highlight Biblical principles related to the questions being asked. If you need professional help, we encourage you to seek it. Qualified counselors are available to assist you at Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling. Please see the links below for more information about Anchored Virtual and the other free resources offered by MARKINC Ministries.

We need your support to ensure that MARKINC can continue providing these valuable free resources and keep Ask Dr. Betters accessible. Please consider donating to MARKINC Ministries to help us offer hope to those in need. You can safely donate through our website, mobile app, or by using this link: https://markinc.org/donate/. Thank you for your generosity!

To discover more episodes of Ask Dr. Betters and explore everything MARKINC has to offer, visit markinc.org. You can also download the FREE mobile app, Help and Hope, by following this link - https://subsplash.com/markincministries/app - or by searching for Help and Hope in your mobile app store.

Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling is an online counseling service that seeks to practically help hurting people by anchoring their hope in Jesus and gaining a better understanding of His promises. They offer reputable, affordable, Biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing hard times, so they are better equipped to persevere by faith. https://anchoredvirtual.com/​

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