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Be or Become

Be or Become

Written by: Darren
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Be or Become is a podcast about being or becoming an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It offers an informal perspective of gospel doctrines and principles as well as real-life applications. Please ask questions, share feedback, and become part of this community.

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  • Gratitude In Any Circumstances
    Feb 24 2026

    President Dieter F. Uchtdorf gave a wonderful talk in 2014 about gratitude called Grateful in Any Circumstances. The talk is loaded with perspective and teaching about gratitude, and how we can have it in any circumstance. Please go listen to this talk.


    I am going to share only one small insight from this talk, and I feel almost disrespectful in sharing only this small portion. There is so much more in the talk. Today I will focus on this quote:


    “We sometimes think that being grateful is what we do after our problems are solved, but how terribly shortsighted that is. How much of life do we miss by waiting to see the rainbow before thanking God that there is rain?


    “Being grateful in times of distress does not mean that we are pleased with our circumstances. It does mean that through the eyes of faith we look beyond our present-day challenges.


    “This is not a gratitude of the lips but of the soul. It is a gratitude that heals the heart and expands the mind.”


    I want to share a story of gratitude that really impressed me. Many years ago, when I was an adjunct faculty at Utah Valley University, I had a spontaneous interaction with our Dean, Newell Dayley. Newell is one of the most kind-hearted individuals I know, and to me he is a contradiction. On one hand he is soft-spoken, thoughtful, kind, receptive, and friendly. On the other hand, I don’t know if I have ever met a person so influential and powerful. He singlehandedly changed the UVU School of the Arts while he was there.


    As I said, one day I ran into Newell and we started to chat at we walked somewhere together. At some point, I remember asking him for a little help with some situation. I don’t even remember the details of the situation, but at the end of our talk together, he looked me dead in the eye, smiled, and kindly said, “Thank you for this opportunity.”


    I was blown away. Here I thought I was adding to his plate. I was a lowly adjunct faculty member, and he was the Dean of the School of the Arts. He had so many things to do, yet he was grateful I had asked for some help on probably something that was not very significant at the time.


    Well, this taught me something about gratitude. Newell Dayley was literally grateful I handed him one more problem or task to deal with. To this day I am amazed at him, and I am grateful for his example of gratitude. Thanks Newell.

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    5 mins
  • God's Covenant to Abraham
    Feb 23 2026

    In the book of Abraham, we learn that Abraham desired to be a minister, to have priesthood authority, and to bless the lives of others. Chapter 1 verse 2 speaks of his desires:


    “And, finding there was greater happiness and peace and rest for me, I sought for the blessings of the fathers, and the right whereunto I should be ordained to administer the same; having been myself a follower of righteousness, desiring also to be one who possessed great knowledge, and to be a greater follower of righteousness, and to possess a greater knowledge, and to be a father of many nations, a prince of peace, and desiring to receive instructions, and to keep the commandments of God, I became a rightful heir, a High Priest, holding the right belonging to the fathers.”


    Wow. Look at Abraham’s desires. We know that Abraham faced struggles in his family. His father was a wicked man, and Abraham had to leave and become a stranger in a strange land. Abraham and Sarah were childless for many years, but they had faith that God would give them posterity. After Isaac was born, Abraham’s faith was tried when he was commanded to offer Isaac as a sacrifice. These were tests Abraham faced, yet he prevailed in faith.


    The promises God made to Abraham can apply to us. I feel like Abraham’s desires were things that we can strive for. We can strive to be greater followers of righteousness, to possess greater knowledge, and to have a righteous posterity that will bless the world.

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    6 mins
  • Preach By The Way
    Feb 21 2026

    Today I read Doctrine and Covenants Section 52 and I counted 8 times that it said some version of the phrase, “preach by the way.” Sometimes it says, “preaching my word by the way,” and sometimes just, “preach by the way.”


    This phrase really stuck out to me and I thought about this content that I am creating. My goal is to share some spiritual insight each day that comes from my scripture study and hopefully helps lead people to Jesus Christ. So, there is a process each day in preparing for this content. I have to study the scriptures and decide what I want to share.


    When I read the words “preach by the way,” I thought maybe I could do some kind of live stream of my scripture study. It would be even more informal than this, and perhaps more interactive, but I thought maybe it would be worth a try. So, I may just try that in the next few days. If so, it will probably be on the Twitch platform, and I will still post a daily message on my youtube and podcast channels.


    I first learned about the phrase, “Preach by the Way,” when I was a full-time missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I served in the Spain, Barcelona Mission from 1998 to 2000. As missionaries, we were encouraged to preach by the way. We did a lot of traveling on busses and trains, and we also did a lot of walking. We had a lot of opportunities to preach by the way, and we did our best to do so. I can think of at least two people that I contacted on the streets that eventually got baptized.


    So here is my invitation for members of the church. Consider preaching by the way. Who has the Lord put in your path today or recently. Can you minister to them? Think about Jesus Christ and how He preached by the way. Many of the wonderful stories of Jesus Christ occurred while He was traveling, or while others asked Him questions. I believe God will put people in our paths and give us opportunities to preach by the way.


    If you are not a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, has there been someone put in your path that has perhaps ministered to you? Ask God to send you people in your life that can lead you closer to Jesus Christ. He will guide your paths. Increase your faith in Christ, be humble, accept help from others, and be patient. God will guide you and lead you to the truth.


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    4 mins
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