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You can feel it in the air right now: families are tense, churches are divided, and it’s easier than ever to slap a label on someone and call it wisdom. We wanted to go deeper than hot takes, so we sat down with Alexander Fenter, a South African pastor and author of Doing Reconciliation, to talk about what biblical peacemaking actually looks like when life is messy and relationships are fractured.

Alexander grew up white under apartheid and describes the slow awakening from privilege to conscience, and the moment God confronted him with a hard line: “You are your brother’s keeper.” From there, we unpack shalom, the Bible’s vision of peace as wholeness and right relationship, not conflict avoidance. We talk about reconciliation with God, with ourselves, with one another, and with creation, and why the gospel changes how we see “the other,” whether that’s race, politics, class, or the person who hurt us.

If you want Christian fatherhood that’s honest, healing, and strong, this conversation will give you language and next steps.

📩 Connect with Alexander Venter:
Facebook: facebook.com/alexander.f.venter
Website: Alexandercenter.com/teachings/

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