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Becoming A Writer

Becoming A Writer

Written by: Rubina Gauri Gomes
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Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday. One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.Rubina Gauri Gomes Self-Help Success
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  • The Transformative Power of Journaling for Writers
    Oct 31 2025
    E41 - The Transformative Power of Journaling for WritersEpisode Summary :In this episode, we explore how journaling can transform both your writing and your inner world. Beyond being a daily habit, journaling becomes a sacred practice that clears creative blocks, builds self-awareness, and strengthens your connection with your craft. Based on my experience, I share my favorite journaling methods, how to make journaling a lasting habit, and the short-term and long-term benefits you can experience.Key Points Discussed:Why writers should journal?Three simple and effective journaling styles.7 steps to stick with your journaling habit.Why you should treat your journal as your safe space?Short-term and long-term benefits of journaling that you may experience.Takeaways:Journaling is a sacred act of self-expression and reflection.There’s no “right” way—just consistency and honesty is required.Let your journal be your safe, playful, and healing space.Over time, it will transform both your writing and your relationship with yourself.---⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Send in your suggestions and questions here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📚 My non-fiction book for writers -Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon US⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon UK ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon India⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🏡 My homes on the internet -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube Music⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack (podcast)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠A Rubina’s Bojra ProductionDirected, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri GomesMusic by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (At Adobe Stock)Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri GomesFueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍About Podcast -Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.About Me -I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.I have authored⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
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    15 mins
  • Befriend Your Creative Fears.
    Sep 27 2025
    E40 - Befriend Your Creative Fears.Episode Summary:After a health break, I return to explore the role of fear in a writer’s journey with you. Fear of judgment, rejection, or not being “good enough” can paralyze creativity, yet fear also signals growth. Through personal reflections, a cycling metaphor, and wisdom from Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert, I share how we writers can reframe fear as a companion instead of a roadblock.Key Points Discussed:Fear is natural and part of writing. Common fears: judgment, failure, rejection, imposter syndrome. Writing is vulnerable—criticism feels personal. Fear mirrors learning cycles: wobble, fall, rise, succeed. Challenges expand your comfort zone and help you “level up.” Fear can join the journey, but it doesn’t get to drive. Takeaways:Fear points to where your growth awaits. By befriending it and letting courage lead, you’ll not only keep writing—you’ll watch your journey thrive.---⁠⁠⁠⁠Send in your suggestions and questions here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📚 My non-fiction book for writers -Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon US⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon UK ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon India⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🏡 My homes on the internet -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube Music⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack (podcast)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠A Rubina’s Bojra ProductionDirected, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri GomesMusic by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (At Adobe Stock)Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri GomesFueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍About Podcast -Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.About Me -I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.I have authored⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
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    12 mins
  • Write Your Book Like You Read One—Let Your Words Surprise You.
    Jun 27 2025
    E39 - Write Your Book Like You Read One—Let Your Words Surprise You.Episode Summary:In today’s episode, we dive into a refreshing mindset shift for writers: Write like you read. Whether you're crafting fiction or non-fiction, approaching your book with curiosity, imagination, and conversational flow can not only make the writing process more enjoyable, but also make your words resonate more deeply with your readers. We talk about how letting your story unfold like a movie in your mind or a conversation with a friend can lead to powerful creative breakthroughs and a stronger connection to your work.Key Points Discussed:The Movie in Your Head: How visualizing your scenes like a movie can help fiction writers write immersive, emotionally rich stories.Scene Spontaneity: Embracing unplanned moments that emerge during writing can be a sign of creative flow.Write Like You Read: Letting the next scene or paragraph surprise you, just like when you're reading a great book.Fiction Writing Tips - the movie mindset.Non-Fiction Writing Tips - the conversation mindset.Avoiding Perfectionism: Writing your first draft is about freedom, not flawlessness. Editing will come later.Why Writing Like This Helps: It reduces overwhelm, unlocks creativity, and makes writing more enjoyable and sustainable.Takeaways:Your story might already know what it wants to be. Let it lead you.First drafts are not for perfection—they're for discovery.Writing like you're reading (or watching a movie or talking to a friend) brings joy back into the creative process.Let your writing breathe—you’re not just crafting words, you’re crafting an experience.The goal is not to control the story, but to collaborate with it.Whether you’re a panster or a plotter, surprise is your friend.Write from a place of curiosity, not control.---⁠⁠⁠Send in your suggestions and questions here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📚 My non-fiction book for writers -Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon US⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon UK ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon India⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🏡 My homes on the internet -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Music⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube Music⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack (podcast)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠A Rubina’s Bojra ProductionDirected, produced, written, and hosted by Rubina Gauri GomesMusic by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"Happy Lazy Loop" by Serge Quadrado⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (At Adobe Stock)Audio-visual edited and marketed by Rubina Gauri GomesFueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍About Podcast -Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.About Me -I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.I have authored⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.
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