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Becoming With Rhian

Becoming With Rhian

Written by: Rhian Lindley
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Becoming is a podcast about reinvention, resilience and finding your way when life feels like it’s fallen apart.

I'm Rhian, your host. I am a Positive Psychology, Divorce, Reinvention, Life & Mindset Coach, Master NLP Practitioner, writer and speaker. And a single mum to three amazing young adults. I have reinvented myself so much throughout my life. Entrepreneur, Marketing Consultant, Music Teacher, Musician, Author, Journalist and Coach. Girlfriend, Wife, Ex - Wife, Friend, Daughter, Mum.

This podcast is for you if, like me, you refuse to settle for “this is just how it is.” You want more. You feel you deserve more. You want happiness, success and to live the life that you know you deserve. You’ve faced challenges, setbacks, and reinventions of your own—but deep down, you know you’re capable of so much more. But you feel stuck.

This podcast will explore the main aspects of growth and "Becoming" to help you implement them in your own life. Through my coaching, my take on life, interviews with inspiring and interesting people who are "Becoming" and tools and methods grounded in the science of Positive Psychology we will inspire and motivate you to live a full and happy life. To recover from setbacks and trauma and to develop the courage and the self belief to pursue your dreams. Your big goals. The scary things in life that excite you but seem so far away from what you can achieve.

Let's "Become" Together. I'm so glad you are here. Hit subscribe to ensure you don't miss an episode. And if you'd like to work with me please email rhian@rhianlindleycoaching.com

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Episodes
  • The Body Remembers: Divorce, Stress & Your Health
    Jul 25 2025

    Divorce doesn’t just break hearts — it impacts bodies too. In this episode, I am joined by Health Psychologist, Zoe Cave-Hawkins and we explore how the emotional upheaval of separation and divorce can show up physically: from chronic fatigue and sleep disturbances to gut issues and inflammation.

    You'll hear why the body often bears the burden of unprocessed stress, and how to start reconnecting with and caring for yourself in the midst of emotional chaos.

    Whether you're in the thick of a breakup or supporting someone who is, this episode is a reminder that healing is both emotional and physical — and that the body, too, needs time, compassion, and care.

    Contact me for Reinvention Coaching and beautifully curated retreats. rhian@rhianlindley.com

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    27 mins
  • After the Earthquake: Identity and Divorce
    Jul 11 2025

    In this episode of Becoming with Rhian, I explore the psychological aftershocks of divorce — the deep identity rupture that can follow the end of a relationship. Divorce isn’t just a legal or emotional separation; it can feel like an earthquake that shatters the foundation of who you thought you were.

    I speak candidly about the disorientation that comes when the roles, routines, and relationships that once defined you suddenly fall away. What happens when your identity is wrapped around being a partner, a caregiver, or part of a shared future — and then it’s gone?

    We dive into the grief, the questions, the fear — but also the quiet, surprising space that opens up for reinvention. This is an episode for anyone who’s ever felt unrecognizable to themselves after a major life rupture. It’s about the messy, vulnerable, and ultimately human journey of becoming someone new.

    Contact me for Reinvention Coaching and beautifully curated retreats. rhian@rhianlindley.com

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    24 mins
  • Grieving The Living : Divorce, Healing And The Real Cost Of Unfelt Pain
    Jun 6 2025

    Divorce isn’t just a legal process—it’s an emotional reckoning. In this episode, we explore the often overlooked truth that divorce requires grieving the living: a person who’s still out there, but no longer in your life in the same way. But that’s only part of the story.

    We dive deep into the layers of loss that come with separation—your identity, future dreams, financial security, mutual friends, even family ties. You’ll learn how these hidden griefs compound, and why acknowledging and processing them is essential for true healing.

    We walk through the stages of grief as they show up in divorce, debunk myths about “moving on,” and share practical tools from positive psychology and somatic healing to help you regulate, release, and rebuild. Because if you don’t grieve well, you won’t be standing on solid ground when it’s time to reinvent.

    This episode is your gentle, empowering guide to making space for pain, so you can make room for possibility.

    🎧 Tune in now—and start honoring what was, so you can begin creating what’s next.

    Contact me for Reinvention Coaching and beautifully curated retreats. rhian@rhianlindley.com

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    33 mins
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