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Behind the Paddle

Behind the Paddle

Written by: Porcelain Victoria
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Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.

Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 8yrs) on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.

She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through any
socials.

Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.com

Our socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle

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Episodes
  • E108: The Lies of the NordicModelNow - Part 2 Booklet
    Jan 12 2026

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    In this episode of Behindthepaddle, we take a critical look at the widely circulated booklet Decriminalisation vs the Nordic Model. Rather than debating ideology, this episode focuses on how the argument is constructed — from the emotional framing in the opening pages to the way evidence from New Zealand, Germany, and Europe is later presented.

    We unpack how language, selective survivor testimony, and eye-catching statistics are used to guide the reader toward a predetermined conclusion, and why this matters for anyone engaging in good-faith conversations about sex work policy. This isn’t about denying harm — it’s about asking whether harm reduction debates can be honest, nuanced, and evidence-based.

    If you’ve ever been sent this booklet as a “gotcha,” this episode offers the context needed to read it more critically.

    https://nordicmodelnow.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Decrim-vs-the-NM-booklet.pdf


    BBC Episode - with myself

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002msdj


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    2 hrs and 26 mins
  • E106: The Lies of the NordicModelNow - Part 1 Booklet
    Dec 24 2025

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    In this episode of Behindthepaddle, we take a critical look at the widely circulated booklet Decriminalisation vs the Nordic Model. Rather than debating ideology, this episode focuses on how the argument is constructed — from the emotional framing in the opening pages to the way evidence from New Zealand, Germany, and Europe is later presented.

    We unpack how language, selective survivor testimony, and eye-catching statistics are used to guide the reader toward a predetermined conclusion, and why this matters for anyone engaging in good-faith conversations about sex work policy. This isn’t about denying harm — it’s about asking whether harm reduction debates can be honest, nuanced, and evidence-based.

    If you’ve ever been sent this booklet as a “gotcha,” this episode offers the context needed to read it more critically.

    https://nordicmodelnow.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Decrim-vs-the-NM-booklet.pdf

    BBC Episode - with myself

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002msdj

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    Thank you so much for listening 💖

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    1 hr and 29 mins
  • E104 :International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers — 17th December
    Dec 17 2025

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    Today we will be talking about International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers.

    This day exists because too many people who sold sex were harmed, ignored, disappeared, and killed and because the world decided that was acceptable, or at least inevitable.

    Some sex workers' deaths,assaults, disappearances aren't even accounted for.
    For the people whose lives were reduced to headlines that began with “Prostitute found…” Never questioned why, why did they happen. What can we do to prevent it.

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    42 mins
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