We talk about periods.
We talk about puberty.
But no one really talks about what happens next.

In this episode of Between Us Mother Daughter UNFILTERED, Zeynep shares her experience with untreated perimenopause; what it actually felt like, what was missed, and how quickly things spiraled without answers.

What started as irregular cycles turned into constant bleeding for 10+ months straight which then led to extreme issues and a body that no longer felt like her own. After months of being dismissed and told everything was “normal,” the reality turned out to be far more serious.

Tara Khaleesi shares what it was like watching it unfold as a daughter; the confusion, the fear, and what she understands now that she didn’t then.

Tom joins back to give the male perspective this time on perimenopause; what it looks like from the outside when you don’t understand what’s happening, and why awareness and communication matter more than ever.

This is not about fear.
This is about awareness.
Because untreated perimenopause doesn’t have to become a crisis; but without understanding, it can.

And that’s exactly why we talk about it now… together.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Perimenopause is the hormonal transition before menopause and can last for years. Symptoms go beyond physical; they affect mood, sleep, and mental clarity:

• Hormone levels fluctuate unpredictably, not in a straight line
• Many women are dismissed or misdiagnosed during this phase
• Severe symptoms can escalate when left untreated
• Awareness, early recognition, and support can change everything

If this episode helped you understand something you’ve been feeling, share it with someone who needs to hear it.

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Tara Khaleesi at only 5, in one single day, learned that "boys have different parts than girls, and girls bleed from their parts!?"

Lucky Mom, who got to explain both to her 5 year old, all on the same day!

What started as a completely accidental discovery turned into a much more intentional conversation... And honestly, we are glad it did.

In this episode, Zeynep and Tara Khaleesi dive into teen hormones, periods, PMS, mood swings, and that moment most every girl has where she thinks: "What is wrong with me?"

Here is the truth: "Nothing is wrong with you!"

Zeynep and Tara Khaleesi break it all down in a way that actually makes sense, without making it awkward or clinical, including the four phases of women's cycle they named themselves:

• The Red Phase (Period) = Day 1-5
• The Let's Go Phase (After Period) = Day 6-13
• The Superwoman Phase (Ovulation) = Day 14-17
• The Stay Away From Me Phase (PMS) = Day 18-28

They also talk about why your mood, energy and confidence can change from week to week, why you can feel hormonal even if your periods have not started yet, and how to recognize what's happening instead of fighting yourself or with others during certain phases.

And for a little balance, Tom, Zeynep's husband and Tara Khaleesi's dad, joins the conversation to bring in the male perspective... Because let's be honest, we need this too.

This is a part one of a two part series. Next up: perimenopause and that is a whole different level...

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For Gen Alpha, "everything revolves around social media." So instead of talking about them, we sat down with them.

In this episode, we brought together a group of 12-year olds to talk about what social media actually feels like at their age - Snapchat, streaks, TikTok, group chats, pressure, and the constant pull to stay connected.

Here is what stuck with us the most: They see the downsides. They understand the risks. And they still want it.

We also share what happened in our own home when Snapchat went from innocent fun to something that started changing behavior... And what we did about it.

No lectures. No pretending we have it all figured out. Real conversations. With Gen Alpha. In real time.

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Mentioned in this episode:

• The Social Dilemma (Documentary)
• Bark Phone (Advanced monitoring for kids' and teens' devices)
• Dr ZDoggMD (Zubin Damania "What Is Social Media Doing To Our Daughters?")

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This powerful round-table episode of Between Us, Mother-Daughter Unfiltered, honors the life and legacy of Morgan McCaffery, an extraordinary young woman whose life was taken by teen dating violence, and whose light now leads in spreading awareness about abusive relationships.

In this historic episode, we sit down with the leadership team of Morgan’s Light, the organization founded in Morgan’s memory to educate, empower, and save lives:

• Deneen McCaffery, CEO of Morgan’s Light; Morgan’s aunt and godmother

• Joann Brown, COO of Morgan’s Light

• Angelina Eidson, Miss Florida Delegate, National Ambassador for Morgan’s Light; and a future human rights attorney

Deneen shares who Morgan was: loving, loyal, vibrant, brave, generous, and deeply adored. She walks us through the gradual shifts in Morgan’s behavior, the early shifts no one saw as danger, the threats uncovered afterward, the critical risk of the breakup period, and the devastating sequence of that morning. Deneen's testimony is raw, courageous, and essential; a truth families must hear so they can recognize red flags long before it’s too late.

Zeynep shares her own lived experience as a teen dating violence survivor, offering insight into how early emotional shifts often go unnoticed, both by the teen and by the family watching from outside. Her perspective connects the emotional reality of abuse to the urgent need for early, honest conversations at home about boundaries, instincts, and the difference between love and control.

Angelina breaks down modern digital red flags that didn't exist a generation ago. Snap Map, Life360 monitoring, message-time tracking, and patterns of digital surveillance that are quietly normalized as "caring." Through her work with Morgan's Light and the Miss American Organization, she explains how today's abusers weaponize technology in ways most parents don't even know to look for.

Tara Khaleesi expands the conversation with real Gen Alpha perspective, how these dynamics actually show up among teens today; from Snapstreak pressure to Snapscore surveillance to the expectation of constant availability. Her insight offers parents a rare, honest window into how her generation interprets these signals long before a relationship turns visibly unhealthy.

Joann brings the parental and community lens into focus, sharing the deeply concerning reality that many families still believe: “Not my kid.” She recounts the school parent night where only one parent showed up and the boys’ school that refused to host Morgan’s Light because they claimed their students “would never do that.” Joann is the voice urging parents to show up, listen, and engage long before a crisis happens and reminding them that silence is its own form of risk.

Morgan didn’t get the chance to share her story. But through her family, through this mission, and through conversations like this one, her light leads the way for others.

Awareness saves lives.

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RESOURCES & LINKS

Morgan’s Light:

https://morgans-light.org/

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7):

1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

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In our final episode of 2025, we speak unedited and unfiltered about grief, presence, and what it looked like to move through a hard month as a family.

After losing my father on December 2nd, 2025, we took a pause because I (Zeynep) was not emotionally available.

In this episode, we share how we navigated grief without collapsing, how Tara Khaleesi experienced the month in her own way, and why protecting children from adult pain matters.

This conversation isn't about having answers; it is about honesty, connection, and closing a chapter with intention as we step into 2026 lighter, grounded and together... Between Us... Unfiltered...

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In this episode of Between Us Mother Daughter Unfiltered, Zeynep and Tara Khaleesi go from laughter to life lessons in their signature unfiltered style.

The mother daughter duo dives into how to spot emotional manipulation, protect your peace, and set boundaries that actually work.

Introducing "Boundary Firewall" Zeynep's ongoing segment on boundaries, Zeynep covers five rules that teach how to recognize manipulation and guard your emotional safety.

Tara Khaleesi brings the Gen Alpha perspective, breaking down down why the phrase "They're just jealous" misses the mark and what kids really need to hear from adults instead.

They also reveal how hormones, emotions, and self awareness intertwine, ADHD brain moments included, and still manage to make it funny, relatable, and valuable at the same time.

Highlights:

• The four month mural transformation that taught as much about persistence, patience, and awareness as it did about art.
• Boundary Firewall, Zeynep's new ongoing segment begins here, with 5 rules for spotting manipulation and protecting your peace.
• "Just because somebody says they love me, doesn't mean I have to keep giving them access to me."
• "Watch actions, not words"
• The question every adult should start asking "Do you want help processing this, or do you just need me to listen?"
• Gen Alpha Word Of The Week: HUZZ and did we just announce ours on air?

It's part humor, part hard truth, and all real talk; the way only Between Us Mother Daughter Unfiltered can do it.

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Zeynep and Tara Khaleesi are back! In this episode of Between Us: Mother–Daughter Unfiltered, they retire "cringe." they "trick their brains" and tell you how; and read your DMs about "red flag friendships" - out loud!

This Gen Alpha daughter and her Xennial Mom share how to stop letting "cringe" break connection between parents and kids; how to stay disciplined when motivation ghosts you and how to recognize red flags hiding in plain sight before they hurt you.

It's part hilarious, part honest therapy session between generations. Honest, funny, and deeply relatable. The kind of conversations families everywhere are finally ready to have.

Don't miss this one, especially when they talk about their Halloween photo shoot, where they almost drowned...

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Welcome to the debut of Between Us Mother Daughter UNFILTERED! A Xennial Mom: Zeynep - immigrant, survivor, cycle breaker, designer and the founder of the custom boot brand: Zeyzani; and a Gen Alpha Daughter: Tara Khaleesi - witty, emotionally intelligent beyond her years, and never shy about saying what's on her mind. Together they pull back the curtain on real life; no sugarcoating, no Pinterest perfect edits.

In this debut episode, Zeynep and Tara Khaleesi share the 5 life rules that have shaped their family with their signature banter and laughs woven in.

1- Be Kind

2- Grow A Pair (aka be brave)

3- Suck It Up (feel it, then chin up and move on)

4- Give It Your All

5- Own It

They also dive into the red flags that show up in friendships way before dating ever starts; and why those early dynamics matter.

Tara Khaleesi schools Mom on Gen Alpha slang with two must know terms: rage baiting and crashing out. Somewhere in the middle, she even drops a genius "3D Glasses" metaphor about balancing mom vs best friend (unscripted, totally floored us)!

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