“Indecision is not neutral. It’s costing you, every day.”
In the episode of Beyond the Quo, Stacey Luces builds upon her previous talk on Main Character Energy,' providing practical advice on embodying this mindset daily. She discusses the common pitfalls that hinder us, such as fear, familiarity, fatigue, guilt, and outdated identities.
Stacey emphasizes the necessity of making intentional, courageous decisions to break free from repeating past patterns. Drawing on personal anecdotes and professional experience, she guides listeners on transforming intentions into actions, setting boundaries, and achieving authentic success in health, relationships, and career. Tune in for actionable insights to lead yourself and others more effectively.
🎧 In this episode:
• 01:13 Identifying the Barriers to Change
• 07:42 The Importance of Intention and Execution
• 14:14 Making Decisive and Courageous Choices
• 26:30 Practical Steps for a Better Year
💡 Key Takeaways:
• The 5 places you keep making decisions from (and why that repeats your year): Fear, familiarity, fatigue, guilt, and identities you’ve outgrown.
• A simple reframe that changes everything: “Does this decision advance the plot or stall it?” No drama required. Just direction.
• A 48-hour action challenge to rebuild self-trust: Pick one postponed decision, take one step in 48 hours, and use the feeling of alignment as your compass.
• Resentment is information, not a character flaw. When you feel resentment, numbness, or “tired but I slept,” it’s a signal that you’re out of alignment and likely self-abandoning somewhere.

You’ve already done the quo—now it’s time to go beyond.
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What if the revolution in education isn’t just about policy or paperwork—but about seeing someone fully, without pity, and showing up with consistency and compassion?
Welcome back to Beyond the Quo—the podcast where we dismantle outdated narratives of success, leadership, and fulfillment. I’m your host, Stacey Luces—executive coach, reinvention strategist, and founder of the Living Beyond Movement.
For over two decades, I’ve walked with leaders through burnout, breakdowns, and bold reinventions. And one thing I’ve learned? Transformation rarely starts with a checklist—it starts with a whisper. A moment. A mentor. Someone who sees more in you than you’ve been taught to see in yourself.
And today’s guest is the embodiment of that truth.
Meet Christine Sylvain—TEDx speaker, community builder, and award-winning founder of Path to College, a nonprofit on a mission to close the college access gap for high-potential, low-income students.
But Christine doesn’t just talk equity—she builds it. As the mixed-race daughter of an immigrant, she knows what it means to navigate identity, scarcity, and systems that weren’t built for everyone. She took that experience and turned it into something transformative—from the inside out.
In this conversation, we talk about:
• Education that empowers, not just evaluates.
• Burnout recovery and boundary-setting.
• Reparenting ourselves after decades of over-functioning.
• The link between personal wellness and collective change.
• And how mentorship can be the spark that redefines a life—not by fixing, but by seeing.
This episode is deeply human. It’s full of heart, truth, and tangible takeaways. If you're in the work of impact, leadership, or just raising the next generation—this one’s for you.
So grab your journal, your favorite cup of whatever, and let’s get into it.
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💡 Key Takeaways:
• High Achievement Looks Different in Marginalized Communities
Christine redefines achievement—not by GPA, but by grit. Her students often juggle part-time jobs, care for siblings, and translate medical paperwork—all while navigating school. That’s excellence.
• Mentorship and Belonging Change Lives
It’s not a single scholarship that creates success—it’s consistent care. Christine’s long-term, trauma-informed mentorship model cultivates safety, confidence, and generational ripple effects.
• You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Lead Powerfully
Christine let go of the myth that leaders must be polished. Her openness about divorce, burnout, and healing has only deepened her impact—and made her leadership magnetic.
• Stress Isn’t the Enemy—Disconnection Is
Stress can shape us. But chronic stress, isolation, and survival mode? That breaks us. This episode unpacks how rest, community, and values-based living are non-negotiables for sustainability.
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✨ Connect with Stacey Luces
• Free Global Community: Rising Beyond Power Collective
📩 Connect with Christine Sylvain
• LinkedIn/Instagram: @citizenchristine @pathtocollege
• Website: www.pathtocollege.org

Beyond Permission: Owning Your Power and Your Next Move with Stacey Luces
“If you repeat the same day for 80 years… what kind of life is that? Because that’s what ‘good enough’ turns into.”
In the first episode of Beyond the Quo for 2025 Stacey Luces dives deep into embracing 'main character energy' and stepping out of supporting roles in our own lives. Stacey addresses common feelings of reflection and resolution at the beginning of the year, urging us to live authentically, redefine success, and lead courageously. This episode touches on the pitfalls of remaining passive in life, the importance of making intentional, consequence-driven decisions, and practical steps to regain autonomy over one's schedule, health, and personal boundaries. Ideal for those looking to break free from complacency and truly own their narrative in 2026.
🎧 In this episode:
• 00:56 Playing a Supporting Role in Your Own Life
• 02:14 Embracing Main Character Energy
• 05:08 The Power of Personal Promises
• 06:22 Curating Your Circle and Growth
• 15:26 Moving Beyond the Status Quo
• 26:29 Signs You're in Support Role Energy
• 32:23 Reclaiming Main Character Energy
💡 Key Takeaways:
• Resentment is information, not a character flaw. When you feel resentment, numbness, or “tired but I slept,” it’s a signal that you’re out of alignment and likely self-abandoning somewhere.
• Main character energy is a leadership concept, not a vibe. It’s authorship. It shows up in real decisions about boundaries, health, relationships, standards, and who gets access to you.
• Your life is shaped by your schedule and your standards. Things don’t slow down by accident. You slow them down through decisions. Raise the standard, stop over-explaining, have the overdue conversation, and choose what matters most.
You’ve already done the quo—now it’s time to go beyond.
🔥 Feeling inspired? Don’t keep it to yourself!
• Subscribe, share and follow Beyond the Quo and I’d deeply appreciate your five-star rating so more people can listen and learn!
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