So far in Boundless Moments, we have heard from healthcare and mental healthcare providers who have shared their reflections on what it means to experience sacred moments with patients, clients, colleagues, or even mentees. It's time then to explore how sacred moments may unfold from the patient's perspective. And perhaps there's no more fitting segue than by hearing from a person who has experienced both the physician and the patient roles.

In this episode, Dr. Raj Mangrulkar shares with me the very personal moment he realized he was having a stroke, transitioning from caregiver to patient, from independent to relying on others. He shares parts of his health care journey in the hospital and later in the rehab center, reflecting on the value of being seen and heard in a holistic way, the emotional rollercoaster of recovery, and how the eyes can be a window to the soul. The sacred moments in his story are abundant and arise from his intense personal vulnerability and willingness to share his story with others, as well as his reliance on so many people in his community to heal and return to what he loves to do, and how his experience allowed him to grow closer to the Veterans for whom he cares. I left the conversation feeling uplifted and inspired, and I very much hope you do the same.

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In this conversation, Dr. Arlene MacDougall shares her profound experience with dreams, healing, and the transforming power of the sweat lodge. She reflects on a terrifying dream from her youth that became a symbol of her journey through pain and hardship. In her work as a psychiatrist, she highlights the importance of mindfulness in learning to sit with suffering and how connecting to something greater than herself led to deep connection with a client through their shared dream.

Sacred Moments Initiative
2800 Plymouth Road
North Campus Research Complex
Building 16, Room 430W
Ann Arbor, MI 48109-2800
734-936-5216

In this episode, we hear from a renowned PhD clinical psychologist, adjunct professor in psychiatry and psychology, and research scientist. Our guest begins with a brief guided meditation. Using gentle reflection, she helps us envision a metaphorical treasure chest of our most precious memories. This treasure chest meditation may allow us to revisit and hold close a boundless moment from our lives, a moment that brings comfort, meaning, or connection. She then shares the story of her client who found healing through sacred moments. Thereafter, we explore the significance of these moments in therapy, their role as counterweights to trauma, and how they can serve as anchors of hope and purpose. She talks about the importance of creating a safe space for clients to explore their spiritual dimensions, as well as the potential for sacred moments – sometimes called a ray of sunshine or a calling home – to heal.

Sacred Moments Initiative
2800 Plymouth Road
North Campus Research Complex
Building 16, Room 430W
Ann Arbor, MI 48109-2800
734-936-5216

Dr. Adam Marks shares a profound story from his experience as an early career palliative care physician, focusing on the delicate balance between truth telling and maintaining hope for patients and their families. He discusses the emotional complexities involved in delivering serious news, the importance of fostering vulnerability and connection, and the transformative power of sacred moments. He reminds us that grief and joy can and do coexist, especially at the end of life. Through his reflections, he emphasizes the significance of authenticity and the privilege of being present during pivotal moments in patients' lives.

Sacred Moments Initiative
2800 Plymouth Road
North Campus Research Complex
Building 16, Room 430W
Ann Arbor, MI 48109-2800
734-936-5216

Dr. Heather Gilmartin shares her evolution from nursing to leadership coaching. She talks about how a highly challenging moment in her professional life led to her desire to pursue guidance from a coach, and she describes the transformative moment in which her coach was silent, present, and without judgment. She makes linkages between coaching and the nursing profession, between the state of relational flow and sacred moments. Dr. Gilmartin highlights her personal mindfulness practice, elements from sports psychology she uses in her coaching strategies, and the ways her patient care could have been different by using a coaching lens. We touch on the significance of building trust, emotional intelligence, and attunement in coaching relationships. As an added bonus, Dr. Gilmartin helps to uncover a bit of my own psychology – how I can’t make a decision about dinner, how too many options paralyzes me with indecision, and how familial influences impacted my ability to recognize and access my own emotions.

Sacred Moments Initiative
2800 Plymouth Road
North Campus Research Complex
Building 16, Room 430W
Ann Arbor, MI 48109-2800
734-936-5216

Dr. Andrew Kim shares a deeply moving story of unspoken reconciliation between a patient and his estranged mother. As they navigate the complexities of family estrangement, Dr. Kim reflects on the powerful moments of connection and forgiveness that transcend words. Join us as we explore the themes of love, acceptance, and the healing power of presence in the face of life's most challenging circumstances.

Sacred Moments Initiative
2800 Plymouth Road
North Campus Research Complex
Building 16, Room 430W
Ann Arbor, MI 48109-2800
734-936-5216

Dr. Kristin Collier shares a deeply personal story about her friend Jake, a talented physician whose battle with cancer profoundly impacted her understanding of medicine, suffering, and spirituality. Through her reflections, she explores the limits of medicine, the importance of recognizing the humanity in patients, and the need for healthcare professionals to engage with their own emotional and spiritual well-being. Dr. Collier emphasizes the significance of creating sacred moments in healthcare, where deep connections can foster healing and understanding amidst suffering.

Sacred Moments Initiative
2800 Plymouth Road
North Campus Research Complex
Building 16, Room 430W
Ann Arbor, MI 48109-2800
734-936-5216

Dr. Kenneth Pargament shares the story of Alice, a woman who struggled with severe mental health issues and found solace in a sacred moment during therapy. In our conversation, he explores the concept of sacred moments, their characteristics, and their significance in therapeutic settings. Dr. Pargament emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and trust in fostering these moments, which can lead to profound healing and connection. He discusses his early work observing a colleague in the chaplaincy, the impact of sacred moments on therapeutic outcomes for clients, and the concept of wholeness.

Sacred Moments Initiative
2800 Plymouth Road
North Campus Research Complex
Building 16, Room 430W
Ann Arbor, MI 48109-2800
734-936-5216