If you missed episode 007, go back and give it a listen. Summer and I pick up this podcast midway through a conversation and episode 007 will help you stay caught up with this conversation. In this episode, we explore what it means to approach hard questions and challenging dynamics with humble curiosity, grace, and boldness. From recognizing our own discomfort to understanding the weight of being a bystander, we reflect on how to live like Christ—not just in gentleness, but also in courage and conviction. What does it look like to flip tables like Jesus did, not in anger, but with intention and righteousness? And how do we make room for obedience in others, even when we disagree? Our guest today is Summer Hoover. Summer is a homeschooling mom of two and has been married to her first love for twenty years. Being a military wife took her on many adventures, teaching her resilience, flexibility, and the importance of building a strong family foundation wherever life leads. Now settled, she pours her heart into raising and educating her children, and creating a home filled with faith and laughter. She’s passionate about truth, discipleship, and taking every idea and putting it up to the light of Scripture. -----

• Scripture References
  • John 2:13-16
  • Luke 5:17-26 and Mark 2:1-12
• Socratic Method - This is not an endorsement of Saint Leo University, we just found their website offered a simple explanation of the Socratic Method.
• Diane Langberg - "Jesus was not crucified for our systems." (22:15)
• Family Podcast: 006 Patterns Pointing to Potential Perils: Hammon Family Episode Part 2
• Linsey Hammon Facebook Video

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Does Jesus care more for people or systems? What does it mean to embody both fierce justice and tender mercy? How can followers of Christ discern when to extend grace—and when to overturn tables?​ In this episode, we explore John 2:13-16, where Jesus boldly overturns the tables in the temple courts—a powerful act of standing against systems that exploit God's people. We reflect on the striking detail that Jesus took time to craft a whip, considering what He may have been contemplating as He prepared to confront injustice with deliberate, righteous anger. Throughout the conversation, we examine how Jesus embodied both fierce opposition to corrupt systems and tender compassion toward individuals. Along the way, we touch on the purpose of the Socratic Method to help us think critically, ask bold questions, and courageously pursue truth in a world that often prefers silence.​ Our guest today is Summer Hoover. Summer is a homeschooling mom of two and has been married to her first love for twenty years. Being a military wife took her on many adventures, teaching her resilience, flexibility, and the importance of building a strong family foundation wherever life leads. Now settled, she pours her heart into raising and educating her children, and creating a home filled with faith and laughter. She’s passionate about truth, discipleship, and taking every idea and putting it up to the light of Scripture. If you've ever wrestled with how to balance grace and boldness this episode is for you. ----- From this episode:

• Scripture Reference: John 2:13-16
• Socratic Method - This is not an endorsement of Saint Leo University, we just found their website offered a simple explanation of the Socratic Method.
• Diane Langberg - "Jesus was not crucified for our systems." (22:15)

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(00:00:00) Start (00:01:07) Welcome Back (00:02:17) Asking Questions (00:11:40) Favoritism (00:21:03) Manipulation (00:30:54) Silencing (00:40:10) Gaslighting (00:46:20) Common Gaslighting Phrases (00:55:59) Encouragement for Others What if the things we’ve accepted as “normal” in church culture are actually red flags pointing to something potentially dangerous? In this episode of Called to Courage, we take an unflinching look at patterns that often go unnoticed—or are even praised—in faith communities, yet quietly signal a toxic or harmful environment. From silencing questions to controlling leadership, these warning signs deserve to be named. Because recognizing the patterns of peril is often the first step toward healing, truth, and courage. If you've ever sensed something was off but couldn't quite put your finger on it, this episode will give you language—and permission—to believe what you've seen and trust your discernment. This family episode is part two of two. Listen to part one here: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/65263399/download.mp3 ----- Submit your Story: Do you have a story that could be a good fit for the Called to Courage Podcast? If so, use this link to submit your story for consideration! Inquiries: podcast@called2courage.org