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Can We Get Your Number?

Can We Get Your Number?

Written by: Shiloh and Kellie
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Join metamours Kellie and Shiloh as we help navigate the tricky world of out-of-the-box relationships using the enneagram, witty banter, and more!© 2026 Shiloh and Kellie Social Sciences
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  • #28 - What if it’s the best thing ever - How we get our needs met!
    Jan 27 2026

    In this episode we are diving into the Hornevian Triad! The triad our numbers are in give us insight into how we interact with others to get our needs met. The triads are as follows:


    Move Toward others (Compliant stance) - Numbers 1,2 and 6

    Move away from others (Withdrawn stance) - Numbers 4, 5 and 9

    Move against others (Assertive stance) - Numbers 3, 7 and 8


    We will get into all the juicy details of what this looks like for each number, which pairings might be difficult and TONS of tips and tricks on how to connect, communicate and repair depending on which triad you fall into!


    Listening to the descriptions of each triad might bring you closer to knowing your enneagram number and getting on the path toward better understanding of yourself and the people you love!

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    37 mins
  • #27 - Check your superlatives - or getting to know the Harmonic Triads!
    Jan 6 2026

    This episode is all about the Harmonic Triads! The Harmonic Triads categorize types by their coping mechanisms for conflict and disappointment. If you have ever been in any relationship of any sort then you are likely no stranger to conflict AND disappointment!!!

    We talk all about the Positive Outlook triad (2,7,9 and newsflash, Kellie and Shiloh are in this one!!), the Competency Triad (1,3,5) and the Reactive Triad (4,6,8). We talk about how all of our reactions, no matter the triad we are in, are coping mechanisms we've learned throughout our lifetime. We give tips for each number to move toward growth and tips for the partners of those numbers to move through conflict with ease (or at least understanding).

    If you've ever wanted the cheat codes to how to get your partners' back when they are going through it, this is the episode for you!!!

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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • #26 - It's a map! - A deep dive into how to use the enneagram
    Oct 14 2025

    In this episode, we do a surface level deep dive into all the pieces of the enneagram. We give you a new definition of the enneagram and decide that the enneagram is just a map to lead you to yourself. We talk about wings, stress and growth arrows, instincts, triads and how you can utilize all of this information to find balance in yourself and in your relationships. We are crossing our fingers that even though you might feel overwhelmed with the bulk of info, that all the little tips and hacks we give you will add some immediate value to your life helping you stay curious and connected!

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    51 mins
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