In Part 1 of this conversation, John O’Sullivan joins Chat By The Pitch to break down what truly drives healthy development in youth sports.

John shares his journey from long-time soccer coach to founder of Change the Game Project, explaining why burnout, fear-based coaching, and adult agendas continue to derail young athletes. We dive into culture, joy, intrinsic motivation, and why relationships — not tactics — are the foundation of sustainable success.

This episode is essential listening for parents, coaches, and anyone invested in helping kids stay in the game longer, love the process, and grow as people — not just players.

Key Talking Points

1. Why fear-based coaching can create short-term results but long-term damage
2. The difference between transactional and transformational coaching
3. How burnout often starts with adults, not athletes
4. Why coaching is fundamentally a relationship business
5. What research says kids actually want from sports
6. The myth that fun and competitiveness don’t coexist
7. How joy fuels intrinsic motivation and long-term growth
8. Teaching athletes to compete, not just “win”
9. The role of autonomy in athlete development
10. Why culture matters more than systems, tactics, or drills

Quotes From John O’Sullivan

1. “You can compel people through fear in the short term, but it’s not sustainable.”
2. “If kids quit next year, who cares how many games you won?”
3. “Coaching is a relationship business — not an X’s and O’s business.”
4. “You can’t teach winning. You can teach competing.”
5. “Joy and competitiveness absolutely coexist.”
6. “Fun doesn’t mean sloppy — it means organized, challenging, and meaningful.”
7. “Intrinsic motivation is the path to mastery.”
8. “If you remove joy or ownership, motivation fades.”
9. “Sport teaches kids how to do hard things.”
10. “Development isn’t just performance — it’s moral character.”

Connect with John O’Sullivan

🌐 Website: https://changingthegameproject.com

🎙️ Podcast: https://wayofchampionspodcast.com

📚 Book: Changing the Game

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changingthegameproject

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In Part 2, Ian Babcock continues the conversation with Dominique Molina and Antonio Perez, founders of Salient Touch Football Academy, diving deep into how real development is executed day to day.

This episode breaks down session design, open enrollment, punch cards vs. consistency, defending development, and Salient Touch’s ability-based leveling system. Dominique and Antonio explain why age alone is a poor indicator of readiness, how players are evaluated during trial sessions, and why holding firm on levels actually protects player confidence and growth.

For parents navigating busy schedules—and coaches trying to maintain standards—this conversation provides rare transparency into what thoughtful development looks like behind the scenes.

🔑 Key Talking Points

1. How Salient Touch designs sessions around player readiness
2. Why cones vs. game-based sessions change day to day
3. Open enrollment without sacrificing training quality
4. Punch cards vs. monthly commitment — what actually works
5. Why defending is one of the fastest transferable skills
6. Leveling players by ability, not birth year
7. How trial sessions evaluate the full player profile
8. Managing plateaus without rushing promotions
9. Parent communication as a core development pillar
10. Building long-term pathways instead of short-term wins

💬 Quotes from the Guests

1. “Development is best seen with consistency — there’s no way around that.” — Dominique Molina
2. “It’s not one size fits all. It’s one size fits one at a time.” — Antonio Perez
3. “If we water down our levels, we water down what we offer.” — Dominique Molina
4. “Defending is the only way you ever get the ball back.” — Antonio Perez
5. “Progress doesn’t always show on the field right away.” — Dominique Molina
6. “We evaluate the emotional and social side just as much as the technical.” — Antonio Perez
7. “Some players need time, not pressure.” — Antonio Perez
8. “Parents deserve clarity, not confusion.” — Dominique Molina

🔗 Connect with Salient Touch Football Academy

🌐 Website: https://salienttouch.com/contact

📸 Instagram: www.instagram.com/salienttouchfutbolacademy

👍 Facebook: www.facebook.com/SalientTouch

Email: Info@SalientTouch.com

Call/Text : 940.268.3392

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From Park Sessions to Facilities: The Salient Touch Origin Story

In Part 1 of this conversation, Ian Babcock sits down with Salient Touch Football Academy founders Dominique Molina and Antonio Perez to unpack how Salient Touch was built—from a bumpy public field to a multi-location technical training program serving hundreds of players each week.

This episode dives into identity, first touch, emotional intelligence in coaching, and why individual development is often misunderstood in modern youth soccer. Dominique and Antonio share personal journeys from elite athletics, professional playing ambitions, and hard transition moments that ultimately shaped their coaching philosophy.

If you’re a parent, coach, or player trying to understand what real development looks like—and why progress isn’t linear—this conversation sets the foundation.

🔑 Key Talking Points

1. Why first touch is foundational at every age

2. Letting go of the professional dream to build something bigger

3. Coaching without mentors — learning through lived experience

4. Adapting training to emotional and psychological player needs

5. Why technical repetition alone doesn’t work for every child

6. The difference between team development and individual growth

7. Building a business while protecting coaching culture

8. Why progress feels invisible during development plateaus

9. The challenge of parent communication at scale

10. Creating environments where discipline and joy coexist

💬 Quotes from the Guests

1. “If you don’t have a good first touch, it’s impossible to be a good player.” — Antonio Perez

2. “Each player needs something different emotionally from the game.” — Dominique Molina

3. “Our goal isn’t to make everyone pro — it’s to educate them through the sport.” — Antonio Perez

4. “Nothing worth doing in sports is easy, and we shouldn’t pretend it is.” — Dominique Molina

5. “Some players need repetition. Others need sensation.” — Antonio Perez

6. “Culture starts with who you allow on your staff.” — Dominique Molina

7. “Progress isn’t linear — it’s chaotic.” — Antonio Perez

8. “Parents deserve clarity, not silence.” — Dominique Molina

🔗 Connect with Salient Touch Football Academy

🌐 Website: https://salienttouch.com/contact

📸 Instagram: www.instagram.com/salienttouchfutbolacademy

👍 Facebook: www.facebook.com/SalientTouch

Email: Info@SalientTouch.com

Call/Text : 940.268.3392

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