Everyone talks about what they want in a relationship, but what will you absolutely NOT tolerate? Gem and Ian discuss their relationship dealbreakers (which includes everything from dishes to their relationship with their exes) and why it's important to know yours before you start dating. 

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Oh, the audacity to cheat and think you won’t get caught! Gem and Ian discuss their definitions of cheating, different types of cheating, what leads to these situations, and the emotional consequences for everyone involved. 

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From heteronormative abstinence-only sex ed in school to learning when and how to speak up in uncomfortable situations, Gem and Ian discuss how sex education in the United States failed to be useful, informative, and inclusive when they were in school. 

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Gem and Ian rediscover Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. They discuss cringy profile descriptions, strategic swiping strategies, staying safe when going on dates, dating horror stories and people's obsession with tacos.

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Staying alive during a once-in-a-lifetime pandemic is hard enough without adding dating to the mix. Both currently single, Gem and Ian discuss their concerns about meeting up with strangers in an environment where anyone could be infected with COVID-19. On the lighter side, they also discuss how the New York State Department of Health’s Safer Sex Guidelines is surprisingly forward-thinking.

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