• [11] Why People Pleasing is So Common (and How Boundaries Deepen Trust)
    Jan 19 2026

    Chapters

    • People Pleasing as a Survival Response
    • What a Boundary Really Is (Not a Rule or Barrier)
    • The Five Core People Pleasing Narratives
    • How People Pleasing Damages Trust and Desire
    • Why Boundaries Create Safety and Connection
    • The Risk of Authenticity and Fear of Rejection
    • How to Begin Healing People Pleasing Patterns


    LINKS

    • Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠consciousrelating.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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    57 mins
  • [10] Who Makes the First Move? (the Sapphic Dilemma)
    Dec 14 2025
    • If you're new to lesbian dating, you're likely struggling with the question: "Who makes the first move?!"


    • It's a queer right of passage that most females go through when transitioning from dating males to dating females


    • This episode teaches you a framework to move through the awkward "Who makes the first move?" dilemma so you can date with confidence


    Links

    • Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠consciousrelating.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to ⁠⁠⁠⁠join the newsletter and hear about upcoming workshops & classes


    • Couple's Coaching openings are announced on my newsletter!

    • Newsletter Signup: subscribepage.io/consciousrelating













    Music Credits

    https://uppbeat.io/t/paul-yudin/dreamstate

    License code: YTLHO7DQH73KDCKC

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    22 mins
  • [9] What's Charlie Kirk Gotta Do w Your Love Life? (transitioning from 3D to 5D)
    Sep 29 2025
    • What does your reaction to Charlie Kirk’s murder say about your love life?

    • What blind spots might it reveal about how open your heart and mind is for towards your partner?


    • How might your reaction to his assassination reveal what could be holding you back from transitioning from 3D to 5D?


    • And what would it take to make the leap?


    Links

    • Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠consciousrelating.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to ⁠⁠⁠join the newsletter ⁠⁠⁠and hear about upcoming workshops & classes













    Music Credits

    https://uppbeat.io/t/paul-yudin/dreamstate

    License code: YTLHO7DQH73KDCKC

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    56 mins
  • [8] Feeling Secure Outside of Sex
    Sep 5 2025


    • What if sex wasn't the only way to feel secure in your relationship?
      • I vulnerably share my sexual shadows, how I learned to find safety outside of sex-- and how this brought me deeper connection, pleasure, and freedom.



      Links

      • Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠consciousrelating.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to ⁠⁠join the newsletter ⁠⁠and hear about upcoming workshops & classes













      Music Credits

      https://uppbeat.io/t/paul-yudin/dreamstate

      License code: YTLHO7DQH73KDCKC

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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • [7] Creating a Conscious Relationship Culture
    Aug 22 2025
    • Every relationship has its own culture. Is yours intentional?

    • What’s actually informing your relationship culture?

    • Where are you getting stuck?

      • What framework can you use to create conscious agreements?



      Links

      Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠consciousrelating.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to ⁠join the newsletter ⁠and hear about upcoming workshops & classes













      Music Credits

      https://uppbeat.io/t/paul-yudin/dreamstate

      License code: YTLHO7DQH73KDCKC

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    52 mins
  • [6] Recovering from People Pleasing
    Aug 8 2025
    • Where does people pleasing come from?


    • How can it slowly kill your relationship?


    • And what can you do about it?




    Links

    Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠consciousrelating.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to join the newsletter and hear about upcoming workshops & classes


    Original Song: Courage to Love

    https://bit.ly/4mxQ2n1










    Music Credits

    https://uppbeat.io/t/paul-yudin/dreamstate

    License code: YTLHO7DQH73KDCKC

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    42 mins
  • [5] 8 Conflict Best Practices p2
    Jul 26 2025
    • What if conflict didn't have to be a fight?


    • What can you practice to move through conflict more quickly and gracefully?


    • War culture didn't teach you conflict skills, but you can still learn!




    Links

    Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠consciousrelating.org⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about the ⁠⁠⁠⁠Conscious Couple course⁠⁠⁠⁠:


    www.consciousrelating.org/the-conscious-couple










    Music Credits

    https://uppbeat.io/t/paul-yudin/dreamstate

    License code: YTLHO7DQH73KDCKC


    https://uppbeat.io/t/jeff-kaale/new-chapter

    License code: 8U4D1JARWUZ8WEYO

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    29 mins
  • [4] 8 Conflict Best Practices p1
    Jul 25 2025
    • What if conflict didn't have to be a fight?


    • What can you practice to move through conflict more quickly and gracefully?


    • War culture didn't teach you conflict skills, but you can still learn!



    • Links

      Visit ⁠⁠⁠consciousrelating.org⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about the ⁠⁠⁠Conscious Couple course⁠⁠⁠:


      www.consciousrelating.org/the-conscious-couple










      Music Credits

      https://uppbeat.io/t/paul-yudin/dreamstate

      License code: YTLHO7DQH73KDCKC


      https://uppbeat.io/t/jeff-kaale/new-chapter

      License code: 8U4D1JARWUZ8WEYO

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    30 mins