December has a way of turning up the volume — on the house, the schedule, the opinions, and the emotions. In this warm, grounded episode of Conversations Beyond Borders, Susan and Laura speak directly to midlife women who love the season… and also feel completely overstimulated by it.

With gentle humor, compassion, and deeply practical tools, this conversation explores why holiday chaos hits midlife nervous systems differently — and how to stay centered without shutting down, snapping, or taking on everyone else’s emotional load.

You’ll hear:

• Why holiday chaos isn’t personal — it’s seasonal
• How sensory overload shows up in midlife (and why nothing is “wrong” with you)
• Simple grounding tools you can use in the middle of real-life noise and interruptions
• Kind, doable ways to handle other people’s tension without absorbing it
• Permission to stop fixing the chaos — and simply be present inside it

This episode is a steady hand on your back during crowded gatherings, noisy kitchens, unpredictable relatives, and emotionally charged moments. It’s not about controlling the room — it’s about staying connected to yourself while life swirls around you.

If December feels loud, this episode is your quiet place to land.

Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.

Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.

You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca

Disclaimer:
The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.

If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.

This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference....

In this validating and gently humorous December mini-series episode, Susan and Laura explore a familiar truth for midlife women: being incredibly capable can quietly turn into being responsible for… well, everything. Together, they unpack the “competence trap,” the habit of doing things simply because it’s faster, and the hidden emotional cost of carrying so much during an already full season.

With relatable stories, soft laughter, and zero judgment, they offer practical ways to step back, simplify, and let others help — even if the help is imperfect. From micro-delegation to “good enough” holiday standards, Susan and Laura share kind scripts and gentle strategies that bring more ease, connection, and joy back into the season.

If you’ve ever been the woman who anticipates everyone’s needs while quietly juggling eight things at once, this episode is your reminder: you don’t have to do everything just because you can. Breathe, soften your shoulders, and give yourself permission to enjoy the holidays, not just manage them.

Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.

Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.

You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca

Disclaimer:
The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.

If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.

This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference....

In this episode of our December mini-series, Laura and Susan explore the invisible emotional and logistical load midlife women carry during the holidays — often without acknowledgment, and often at the expense of their own wellbeing.

From the unspoken mental work of making the season feel special, to the emotional weight of budgeting, caregiving, and constant noticing, this conversation gently names what so many women experience but rarely articulate.

Together, they walk through:

• The invisible holiday workload that exhausts even the strongest among us
• A compassionate approach to budgeting that honors your relationships and your energy
• How caregiving intensifies in December, and small shifts that make it easier to carry
• Subtle signs you’ve slipped to the bottom of your own list
• A simple December reset to put yourself back into the season you’re working so hard to create

With warmth, honesty, and a touch of humor, Laura and Susan remind you that you are not the fixer of the holiday — you are part of it. You deserve pockets of rest, joy, and ease right alongside everyone you care for.

Next up: “Staying Steady When the Chaos Arrives” — tools for overstimulation, family dynamics, and emotional overload during holiday gatherings.

Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.

Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.

You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca

Disclaimer:
The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.

If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.

This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference....