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Crazy Stupid Midlife

Crazy Stupid Midlife

Written by: Renee & Dannielle
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Real Talk for Women Who’ve Been There, Done That, and Are Ready for More

Welcome to Crazy Stupid Midlife—the podcast for smart, powerful women who are rewriting the rules of what life looks like after 40. Hosted by two 40-something women who’ve navigated motherhood, career pivots, identity shifts, and everything in between, this is your go-to space for real, unfiltered conversations about midlife reinvention.


Because midlife isn’t a crisis—it’s a comeback. A career change, a confidence glow-up, a rediscovery of what really matters. Whether you’re leveling up, starting over, or finally putting yourself first, we’re here with the laughs, the wisdom, and the “WTF is happening to my skin?” moments.


From women’s health and wellness, to aesthetics, aging boldly, and personal growth, we’re talking all the crazy, stupid, beautiful parts of being a woman in midlife. This isn’t the end of your story—it’s the beginning of your best damn chapter yet.

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Episodes
  • Welcome to Season 2: What Fuels Us, What Drains Us & Our Media Takes
    Jan 26 2026

    Season 2

    media, books, movies, TV shows, memoirs, health, wellness, family, recommendations, midlife

    takeaways

    • Renee has been busy teaching multiple subjects and managing a student teacher.
    • Dannielle has been focusing on audiobooks during her walks and drives.
    • Both hosts have enjoyed reading memoirs that provide deep personal insights.
    • Renee recommends 'People We Meet on Vacation' for its engaging story and movie adaptation.
    • Dannielle highlights the emotional impact of Lisa Marie Presley's memoir.
    • The conversation shifts to discussing the importance of health and wellness in midlife.
    • They explore various TV shows and movies that resonate with their experiences.
    • The hosts emphasize the value of family game nights and reconnecting with loved ones.
    • Renee shares her experience with the Golden Bachelor and its positive portrayal of older adults.
    • They conclude with plans for future episodes and a focus on wellness topics.

    summary

    In this episode of Crazy Stupid Midlife, hosts Dannielle and Renee reconnect after a long break to discuss their media obsessions as they kick off the new year. They share insights on recent books they've read, particularly memoirs that have moved them, and explore the emotional impact of these stories. The conversation shifts to movies and TV shows that resonate with their experiences, including the Golden Bachelor and various emotional dramas. They also touch on the importance of health and wellness in midlife, sharing personal experiences and recommendations. The episode concludes with a focus on family game nights and plans for future episodes, emphasizing the value of connection and personal growth.

    • "I cried like a baby."
    • "I read The Housemaid."
    • "It's like you're at the race track."

    Chapters

    00:00
    New Year, New Media Obsessions

    01:41
    Books: Recent Reads and Favorites

    02:55
    Memoirs That Move Us

    06:27
    Thrillers and Mysteries: A Deep Dive

    08:49
    Romance and Audiobooks: A New Genre

    10:51
    Informative Reads: The Menopause Moment

    14:42
    Upcoming Reads and Recommendations

    19:24
    The Life of Lisa Marie Presley

    22:40
    Movies That Touch the Heart

    25:53
    TV Shows: Recent Discoveries and Favorites

    30:22
    Exploring New Shows and Movies

    35:53
    Romantic Comedies and Feel-Good Content

    39:50
    The Golden Bachelor: A New Perspective on Love

    45:36
    Diving into True Stories and Dramatic Films

    53:02
    Games and Family Bonding: A Return to Fun

    57:52
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    58 mins
  • Welcome to Therapy with Dr. Z – Navigating Midlife Relationships, Marriage, and Sex
    Oct 1 2025

    Episode: Welcome to Therapy with Dr. Z – Navigating Midlife Relationships, Marriage, and Sex

    This week on Crazy Stupid Midlife, we sit down with Dr. Kristin Zeising, a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist, to talk about the complexities of navigating relationships in midlife—friendships, marriage, and intimacy.

    We open the conversation by exploring the ways women can rekindle desire, from indulging in luxury lingerie (like Honey Birdette and Deja Vu Boutique in Vista) to immersing themselves in sensual storytelling through Dipsea’s romance novels. We even share some go-to sexy movies and books that have sparked desire for women in this season of life: Baby Girl, Sex Life, 365 Days, and of course, Fifty Shades of Grey—the book that ignited a wave of women wanting more pleasure and a different kind of intimacy in their midlife journeys.

    One of the most powerful moments of this conversation comes when Dr. Z shares the phrase she hears most often in therapy: “I feel broken.” Hearing this was emotional for us because we want every woman listening to know—you are not broken. You are navigating a season that is complex, and you are not alone.

    That’s why we highlight the incredible book You Are Not Broken by Kelly Caspersen, MD—a must-read for anyone who has ever felt this way. It’s enlightening, empowering, and truly shifts the conversation around women’s sexual health and midlife identity. Midlife is not the end of desire or connection—it’s a chance to redefine it.

    Resources Mentioned in This Episode

    • Honey Birdette Lingerie
    • Deja Vu Boutique
    • Dipsea Stories
    • Baby Girl (film)
    • Sex Life (Netflix series)
    • 365 Days (film)
    • Fifty Shades of Grey series by E.L. James
    • You Are Not Broken by Dr. Kelly Caspersen
    • W for Her Personal Lubricant
    • Connect with Dr. Kristin Zeising
      • Website: drzeising.com
      • Instagram: @drkristinzeising
      • Private Practice: Individual & Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy

    Tune in to hear why you are not broken, how to reconnect with your desires, and how friendships, marriage, and sex can evolve beautifully in midlife.

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    1 hr and 23 mins
  • Welcome to a Season Abroad
    Sep 2 2025

    We’re back! After taking a little break, we couldn’t wait to sit down and catch up with you. This season was packed with trips to Paris, Greece, London, Dublin, Copenhagen and Budapest. From milestone birthdays to solo adventures, we had so many moments that were fun, hilarious, and even a little eye-opening.

    Traveling wasn’t just about the places we went -- it gave us space to reflect on family, friendship, and what it feels like to unplug from daily responsibilities. There were boat rides in the Greek isles, delicious meals we’ll never forget, and even a chance encounter with a rock band musician (yes, really).

    Join us for the laughs, the lessons, and maybe even a little travel inspo for your own next adventure.

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    42 mins
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