In this episode of Culture From the Heart Podcast, hosts Larry Levine and Darrell Amy are joined by Dr. Wayne Chappelle, founder and lead psychologist at PsyOPTIMAL and co-author of Healing Your Hurting Mind, to talk about building a culture aligned with core values. Dr. Wayne shares values like integrity, honesty, resilience, and a strong mindset, emphasizing getting comfortable being uncomfortable, not fearing failure but fearing not improving, expecting the unexpected, finding “diamonds” in hardship, and focusing on controllables. He illustrates thriving under pressure with special-ops pool training and applies these principles to leaders facing uncertainty, urging proactive growth and daily habits that make ordinary excellence possible. He discusses workplace realities of anxiety, depression, trauma, burnout, and stigma, encouraging leaders to normalize mental-health care, provide resources, model openness, and be intentional about personal well-being and home life.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Get comfortable being uncomfortable — growth only happens when you put yourself in challenging situations
• Fear not getting better, not failure itself — failure is inevitable; the real danger is not learning from it
• Expect the unexpected — when you anticipate uncertainty, you respond with less panic and more clarity
• Sift through the mud to find the diamonds — even the hardest experiences contain lessons and strengths you didn't know you had
• Focus on the controllables — who you are, how you think, and how you respond are always within your power
• Nobody rises to the occasion; we fall to the level of our training — proactive preparation beats reactive crisis management
• Do the ordinary with excellence every day — the foundation of extraordinary performance is consistent, disciplined daily habits
• Mental health is a continuum, not a binary — everyone struggles at some point; leaders who normalize this create psychologically safer cultures
• You don't have to be suffering to benefit from mental conditioning — train your mind like your body, before the storms hit
• Home life shows up at work — you can't be a great leader if your personal life is falling apart; intentionality in both is essential

QUOTES

• "Culture from the heart is creating an atmosphere that's consistent with and in alignment with the values that are most important to you."
• "Never fear failure. Fear not getting better."
• "When you focus on what you can control versus what you cannot, you become extraordinary."
• "Nobody ever rises to the occasion — we always fall to the level of our training."
• "You have to do the ordinary with excellence every day in order to be extraordinary."
• "You don't have to be suffering in order to benefit from mental strength and conditioning."
• "If you've failed as a husband, a father, a mother, a wife — that's going to eat at you. Be intentional in both."
• "Who you are today should be different than who you were a year ago."

Learn more about Darrell and Larry.

Darrell's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darrellamy/

Larry's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larrylevine1992/

Connect and learn more from Dr. Wayne Chappelle.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/wayne-chappelle-3990b6185/

Dr. Wayne Chappelle’s Book: https://www.amazon.com/Heal-Your-Hurting-Mind-Depression/dp/0310366747

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In this rewind episode of the Culture From The Heart Podcast, hosts Larry Levine and Darrell Amy are joined by Joe Killinger, co-founder of Commercial Brokers International. Joe discusses the importance of company culture in the workplace, emphasizing the need for alignment with employee values and work ethics from the top down. He shares his insights into building a supportive and positive work environment in an industry often lacking in trust and collaboration. He highlights the importance of active hiring practices, employee appreciation, and continuous training. The conversation also delves into how Joe has actively sought to fix broken aspects of the commercial real estate industry to create a thriving, collaborative culture at his company.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Importance of Culture: The significance of establishing and living a genuine company culture that reflects in day-to-day operations.
• Top-Down Approach: The creation and enforcement of culture should come from the top of the organization.
• Collaboration and Trust: Building trust and collaboration among employees and even with competitors can be a major differentiator.
• Investing in Employees: Ongoing training, support, and genuine investment in employee growth can create a highly motivated workforce.
• Recognition and Rewards: Regular acknowledgment and rewarding of employees for their contributions fosters a supportive work environment.
• Adaptive Leadership: Being open to changing industry norms and continually seeking better ways to operate.

QUOTES

• "Alignment. It's hiring alignment. It's like, Hey, here's the culture. Here's the culture we've developed inside this company. It's either going to align to your values and your work ethic, or it's not, but y'all are going to sniff this out pretty fast."
• "It's about recognizing that somebody in your company is doing something for somebody else and then rewarding it."
• "Just because things are the way they are doesn't mean that's the way they're going to be forever. And it's up to leaders to search out and look for better ways to do things."

Learn more about Darrell and Larry:

Darrell's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darrellamy/

Larry's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larrylevine1992/

Connect and learn more about Joe Killinger.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-killingerrealestate/

In this episode of Culture From the Heart Podcast, hosts Larry Levine and Darrell Amy are joined by Tim Lupinacci, chairman and CEO of Baker Donelson, one of the nation's largest law firms. Tim elucidates his approach to leadership, focusing on influence, impact, and authenticity. He discusses the importance of investing in individuals and building trusted relationships within the organization. The conversation covers Tim's journey into leadership, insights from John Maxwell's teachings, and how Baker Donelson aims to serve both its clients and community. Tim also introduces his upcoming book 'Everybody Leads,' which extends his philosophy of leadership to a broader audience. The episode highlights key elements like courage, resilience, and purpose-driven service as foundational to effective leadership and thriving organizational culture.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Invest in Leadership: Tim emphasizes the importance of self-investment to understand and grow as a leader.
• Influence and Impact: Leadership is about influence; every individual can lead by impacting and inspiring others.
• Authentic Relationships: Building trust and authenticity within an organization is crucial for effective leadership and handling difficult conversations.
• Community Engagement: The firm focuses on community service and creating a unified approach to philanthropy through initiatives like Baker Cares.
• Leadership Aroma: Leaders must be conscious of their demeanor and presence, as it significantly impacts those around them.
• Courage in Leadership: Effective leadership requires showing up with confidence, resilience, and a willingness to encourage and uplift others.

QUOTES

• "Everybody's a leader, in the context when you think about influence and impact."
• "The more you know your people, the more you can grow with your people."
• "You have to make tough decisions in the best interest of the organization, even if it's impacting negatively, somebody that you have a very close relationship with."
• "How we show up really matters."
• "Leadership aroma means you can be really energized, optimistic, encouraging your colleagues, or you can go around with your head down."
• "Be a courageous leader and show up."

Learn more about Darrell and Larry.

Darrell's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darrellamy/

Larry's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larrylevine1992/

Connect and learn more about Tim Lupinacci.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/tim-lupinacci/
https://everybodyleads.org/

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